Derrick John Dewling
September 2, 1953 to January 18, 2022
Obituary
Those unable to attend the mass on Saturday January 29, at 11:00 a.m. for the Late Derrick Dewling may view the mass by following this link http://streamingservices.ca
Passed away as a result of cancer on January 18, 2022 at the age of 68 years. Derrick is predeceased by his son, Brian Adam Dewling, parents Blanche and George Dewling, and siblings Eric, Frederick, Eleanor, and Judith.
Derrick leaves to mourn his loving wife and best friend Marilyn (nee Hennebury), his son Christopher, Calgary AB, his step children Jennifer and Scott Stevenson of St. John’s, and his seven grandchildren Isaac, Miles, and Lennox Dewling and Julia, Claire, Fabian and Emma Paradis. His siblings Gladys, George (Charlotte), Gerald, Bob (Joy), Janet, Dave (Liz), the “out-laws”, as he called them: Will (Anne Marie deceased), Aiden (deceased), Moya (Dave), Yvonne (Frank), John (Jo), Janet (Lawrence), Andrea (Gary), Gerard (Gerry) and many nieces and nephews, as well as the best neighbors ever, Paul and Jennifer Morris.
Derrick served up many great meals for family and friends over the years, and enjoyed many a Friday night testing new recipe. “You have cooked your last meal, Dee”.
It was a privilege and an honor to have been on this journey with Derrick and to be by his side when he passed from life to “LIFE”. I am sure he saw Brian’s beautiful smiling face as he called Brian’s name before his last breath.
Cremation has taken place.
A private Mass to take place on Saturday, January 29, 2022 at 11:00 a.m. at Mary Queen of the World Church, Topsail Rd . Derrick will be laid to rest with his son Brian at the Anglican Cemetery on Kenmount Road.
In Lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Autism Society of Newfoundland and Labrador: https://www.autism.nf.net/donate/
Gosh, are you ever missed.
I hope you are happy and at peace.
“He will wipe away every tear from their eyes,’ and there will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the former things have passed away.” [Rev 21:4]
Aunt Marilyn and family: sending you all my love at this very difficult time. Derrick was such a fine family man, he will be truly missed by all those who were blessed to know him.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. With time may all your hearts find healing and peace in the knowledge of our Heavenly Father’s infinite love for Derrick and the peace that he has now found in Heaven.
“And the One seated on the throne said, ‘Behold, I make all things new.’ Then He said, ‘Write this down, for these words are faithful and true.'” [Rev 21:5]
Dear Marilyn
,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I know you have a strong faith and it will keep you going during this difficult time. God Bless !
Marilyn, we were so sorry to hear of you beloved Derrick’s passing. A vivid memory we have of Derrick is when we were in camping mode. Myself, Chris, Andrea, Gary. Oh the times we had! Derrick was so meticulous of his surroundings. Everything had its place, especially us women. It was evident the love you both had for the outdoors. God Bless Marilyn.🦋
Chris and Donna
Aunt Marilyn and family, and Chris and family,
We loved Derrick. We will miss him very much and think of him fondly. We are so thankful you had so many wonderful years together. I was so touched to hear of his final moments and may he find peace and comfort in the arms of little Brian.
With all our Love,
Stephanie, Chris, Coles and Reece Jackman
Aunt Marilyn, Jennifer, Scott and Family. My thoughts and prayers are with you through this tough time. I am thankful that he is now at peace. I sincerely loved Uncle Derrick and will miss him. I’m also greatful I had a chance to chat with him on New Year’s and reminisce of old times and fond memories. Love You Uncle Dee, may you rest in peace.
To Chris, Aunt Marilyn, and all of Derrick’s family; myself and Keith send our deepest condolences on his passing.
I always looked forward to my chats with Derrick at family gatherings, and from our time working together at CRA. His dry, deadpan sense of humor would get me every time, he was a one of a kind person and had a quiet way of making people feel special, especially his family, who meant everything to him.
May you find comfort that he is now at peace and free of suffering.
Sending hugs and love to you all,
Krista and Keith
Dee always had a birch beer for me and a mars bar, and he also always had my favorite ice cream in the freezer. Every time I would be on my skate board outside he would come out and walk with me while I skate. He always made the best jokes, and he had a lot of patience. We will miss you Dee. We love you xo
I nicknamed my pop “Dee” at a very young age, and this became his name, still to this day.
I cannot believe you are gone.
Dee seemed like the kinda person who would live forever.
Everyone absolutely loved this man and his quick witted jokes and his outstanding cooking skills.
Dee always looked out for me in the best and darkest of times. Always making sure Claire and I were good. He loved us all so much.
We could always count on Dee for a chocolate bar and a can of birch beer, and as all good grandparents do, he always slipped us $5 bills.
Dee also used to take me to many of the Ice Capps games, that was a really special time that we shared together. We would put on our Jerseys and head down to the Mile One Centre. He would always get me any snack I wanted, and always got 50/50 tickets. Will hold that bonding time very special to my heart for the rest of my life.
Always so young at heart, we are gonna miss you forever Dee. 🤍🕊😓
Marilyn and family – Sorry to hear of Derrick’s passing. Thinking of you at this sad time. RIP Derrick
Dear Marilyn
Our Sincerest Condolences, Derrick was one of a kind, we didn’t get to spend alot of time together, but the times we did, we truly enjoyed. Gerard and I remember the meals Derrick would cook, always made us feel so special.. We are better for knowing him. God has a special purpose for him now..
All our Love Gerard and Gerry.
Aunt Marilyn, Jennifer and Scott,
Sending lots of love and prayers to you all. Derrick was a thoughtful, intentional, funny, and humble man. We are so glad to have known him and called him family. Wish we could be there with you all and cover you with love and hugs like hundreds of people would do if it weren’t for this pandemic. Much love, Mary-Elizabeth, Kevin & family
Aunt Marilyn & Family,
We hope you take comfort in the fact that you both had been remembered in our prayers of late and that Derrick is at peace now. Recently we were looking through some old photo albums at Hann Pl and came across our wedding album.. It made us laugh remembering when this particular photograph of the two of you was taken. When told to smile, Derrick had deadpanned saying “I am smiling”. We loved his dry, witty sense of humor. It was truly special you both made the trip to NB to be with us, getting married in a snow storm☺️.
He was always willing to give us…well Olivia mostly… free tax advice as CRA loved to chat with her. And we enjoyed Derrick’s prowess in the kitchen more than a few times. We will be sure to raise a glass to him whenever we have Chinese food.
Would love to wrap our arms around you as you navigate this and send our love to you and the rest of the family especially Chris, Scott & Jennifer.
Hugs and kisses.
Craig & Olivia
Luke, Simon, Noah & Sarah xo
Aunt Marilyn, Scott, Jennifer, Christopher & the Dewling siblings, I am so very sorry for your loss. Uncle Derrick was a character of great wit, an interesting ‘observer’ with the odd facial expression that told you exactly what he was thinking, his dry humour was a source of relief even on the darkest of days. Some of my fondest memories of the traditional Boxing Day gatherings at Mother & Dads in Holyrood involve Uncle Derrick. He’d always offer to help out, he’d always take time out of the madness to ask me how I was doing. and he always made me laugh.
Aunt Marilyn, you continue to amaze me with your abundance of love, your faith and for all you do whether it’s your service through your Church, or your advocacy and love for your family during the toughest of battles! I pray your heart heals, knowing that you’ll meet again. Love TracyAnn 🤍
Marilyn & Family,
At this most difficult time, take comfort. In knowing how much Derrick deeply loved all of you.
And take even more comfort in knowing that Derrick is now at PEACE in the company of his son, Brian…. and what stories he is going to be able to tell.
Love you guys…. Uncle John & Aunt Jo
Marilyn we are so sorry to hear of Derrick’s passing. Thoughts and prayers for you & your family at this sorrowful time.
Betty McGrath-Veitch & Aunt Ellie xo
Marilyn our sincere condolences on the passing of your dear husband,. We pray to our blessed Mother that Derrick be laid in the loving arms of her Son Jesus, to share in eternal happiness. Warmest thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.
Love you in Christ
Yvonne, Frank and family
Marilyn, our sincere condolences on Derrick’s passing.
Derrick was a special friend to us.. We always looked forward to our times together, the meals,
vacations and just hanging out with a drink and a munchie.
Derrick was a great human being, a good husband,
father, stepfather and a “Special “Dee”.
We were blessed to have had an evening with him
shortly before he died.
Even though Derrick was very sick he was determined to stay up, had a “swally”, a good meal and, as usual, many laughs.
Derrick will be missed and forever remembered.
Moya and Dave
To quote St. Paul: “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race. I have kept the Faith.”
Derrick did all of this with the total support of you, Marilyn who stood by his side faithfully through all the trials and tribulations that he and you had to endure. You were a team! You always were, but what you both dealt with over the past 19 months proved what a formidable team you were!
Lawrence and I always enjoyed your warm hospitality during our visits “home”. We are so thankful we had that special day together with breakfast at Moya and Dave’s and dinner at Andrea and Gary’s.
Our deep condolences to you, Marilyn, and all of the family. We love you all and we are here for you. We look forward to being with you this Summer.
To Chris and his family, please accept our condolences. While we never did meet as we live in London, he would often speak of you. You both had a love of the culinary arts.
To all the Dewling family, our sincere condolences.
Please know that you are All in Our Thoughts, Our Prayers and Our Hearts at this difficult time.
Janet and Lawrence Jardine and Family
Dave and Liz
We are so sorry to hear about Derrick.. We are thinking about you at this time. God bless and Take Care. xo
Dear Chris & Family, Janet, Dave and all the Dewling siblings and families,
Our deepest condolences to you all. We have many fond memories of your Father and Brother that we cherish. One fond memory with you Chris was when we were the lucky recipients of a gourmet dinner you prepared for your Father, Marilyn, Gary & I. It was a work of art and delicious. Your Father was so proud of your culinary mastery. May you, and all the Dewling families find peace and comfort from your many cherished memories. Rest In Peace Derrick.
With heartfelt love, sympathy and prayers,
Andrea Penney
I have many fond memories of Uncle Derrick, he loved to cook. I recall Mom and Dad being so impressed with the fabulous job he did on Chinese food he made from scratch for all Aunt Marilyn’s siblings and spouses, which he did annually.
He loved his chocolate turtles and any time I could find a box I’d drop them off to him. Last box I dropped off a week or so before he passed he said, do you have a warehouse full of those or what. Lol. He always had a smart or funny comment. Uncle Derrick, you will be missed and I will definitely think of you every time I see or have a turtle.
Much love to all the family, Aunt Marilyn, Scott, Jennifer and family. Chris and family and to Uncle Derrick’s siblings and family. May you all find peace in the days and months ahead. ♥️
Sending condolences to Chris and his family in Calgary Alberta. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. I will always consider you my brother.
Growing up when I’d say “my parents” I’d always mean Mom & Derrick. Most of my friends referred to him as “my Dad” and I’d never correct them because we had that kind of relationship.
He came into our lives when we were young. His death this week makes the past 28 years feel like they flew by so quickly.
We shared a few ups and downs but in my adult years I grew to learn that Derrick truly had my back. We were family by marriage, but we became good buddies too and had several wild/fun times together.
Much respect and love, Derrick. Thanks for everything you’ve done for us. And thank you for being so good to my Mother. 💙. You are loved. You are missed.
Rest In Peace. 🙏
Dee (Derrick) was my step-father. He always took care of us as his own. He helped get us out of the sticky situations we found ourselves in over the years. He supported us through our highs and our lows. He loved his grandkids so much and always had the best stash of treats available.
He will be missed so much. Xoxo
Chris – I am so sad by your fathers passing. I hope you and your boys can take comfort with the thought that my mom was by your fathers side and made sure he was taken care of and comfortable. She prayed daily for him and with him and your dad took great solace in this. Please know that we grieve with you, Isaac, Lennox, and Miles.
Dearest Marilyn, Jennifer, Scott, Julia, Claire, Fabian and Emma,
Our hearts and prayers are with you all at this sad time. Dee loved you all so very much and we know how special and loved he was by each of you.
You have been blessed with beautiful memories that we pray will bring you some comfort. We have fond memories of you all too: Visits on the patio, cupcakes for birthdays, visits in the garden and camping grounds, dinners and afternoon tea parties.
Your journey with Dee through his diagnosis and treatments was full of love, faith, perseverance and courage. A Holy example of family love and support that we are greatful to have witnessed.
May Our Dear Lord, His Blessed Mother and all your Guardian Angels hold you close in Their Arms as your healing process now begins
With all the love in our hearts,
Gary & Andrea
Marilyn and family
We are so sorry to hear of Derrick’s passing! May the many good memories made together help you get through this difficult time.
Jennifer and Kevin Manning
Marilyn, please accept our condolences on the passing of your loving soulmate Derrick. It is always difficult to find the appropriate words of comfort at a time such as this, but know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. Life has many twists and turns for us and when we are faced with unsurmountable challenges with health we are put to the ultimate test. We know how hard you both tried to overcome the burden of disease, but there comes a time we must surrender with dignity. May Derrick complete his final journey as he enters the kingdom of our God and Father to rest in eternal peace. Know that we will all be reunited once again and our souls will will find our rewards for everlasting life. RIP Derrick, your battle is done. May you be free in spirit to live in the hearts of all whom you have loved and adored. Blessings.
Marilyn, I know there is nothing anyone can say or do to ease your pain, but I know your faith and strength will see you through. You have my deepest sympathy. God bless all of you.
My sincere condolences to Derrick’s family and friends. I had the pleasure of many conversations with Derrick while we worked at the Taxation Centre. He was a great guy with a very friendly smile. God bless you all. RIP Derrick.
Condolences to Derrick’s family.
Ralph Acreman
Marilyn,Jennifer, Scott ,Chris and Family. Our sincere condolences on your loss.
Derrick fought a hard battle , but is at peace now. Marilyn you are certainly an inspiration when it comes to faith. It was this faith that helped give Derrick such a peaceful passing ❤️ My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very difficult time. RIP Derrick
I worked with Derrick at the tax center a wonderful man. peace to his family,
Marilyn & family,
We are Andrea and Gary’s neighbors and we are so saddened to hear of Derrick’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Cherish your memories.
To Chris and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Myself and Derrick had many a chat at CRA. He was very kind man. Cherish the memories
Marilyn, My heart is breaking for you Jennifer, Scott and all your family. I know you were Derrick’s soul mate and I know how you guys enjoyed your life together. It’s never easy to see someone you love so much in sickness and pain and I bet he fought hard because of your love and support.. Now my friend, you have to battle on with a very sad heart. This Covid crap is for the birds, but please know I am thinking of you and praying for your strength. I hope your heart can find some peace and your pain of grief will slowly ease. Love you my friend. Cathy and Paul Murphy
Dave, my prayers are with you and your family. I have wonderful memories of Derrick at St. Michael’s. He’s in the arms of the Angels. God Bless.✝️ From Gail Ryan (Norris).
My thoughts and prayers are with Derrick’s family. I worked with Derrick at the tax center a wonderful man. RIP
Marilyn , so sorry for your loss .
Chris, sorry to hear of your dad’s passing. . Our deepest sympathies to you , Marilyn, and your family.
Lillian Williams and family
Janet
My sincere condolences to you and your family. You are in my prayers during this difficult time
So sorry to hear of Derrick’s passing. I first met Derrick at Bishops College, then, years later, he would drop into our grocery store (Belbins) and we’d catch up on each other’s news and remanence of school days. Derrick was always the kind of of guy that you were glad you bumped into. I remember him as somewhat of a quiet guy, the kind of person who knew when to talk and when to listen, interesting without being boastful, entertaining but not annoying, and he had a great smile. My sincere condolences to his family, may he rest in peace.
Our sincere condolences to Marilyn and family. So very sorry for your loss.
Clayton and Bernice Penney
Janet
So sorry to hear of the passing of your brother
May he rest in peace. Stay strong and safe.
Danny Corcoran
So sorry to hear of Derrick’s passing. We worked together at CRA and shared many conversations about the importance of family. He always spoke fondly of his.
May your cherished memories help you at this difficult time.
Marilyn I know you and Derrick fought a long hard battle over the last 19 months. I wouldn’t have wanted anyone by his side as you were true soulmates. Your prayers and devotion is what kept him going, he told me he couldn’t give up because of you. He will be greatly missed, trips home to NL will never be the same. Love to you and your family.
Janet. I.am sorry for the loss of your brother. I am praying for you and your family
To Marilyn and Family
We were sadden to hear of Derrick’s passing.. I know he will be sadly missed. Our condolences Marilyn and all the family and friends. You remain in our thoughts and prayers.
To Christopher. So sorry to hear of your dad’s passing. It is a long time since we were neighbors on Prospero Place.
To Marilyn, Chris and the Dewling family. I was saddened to learn of Derrick’s passing. It was only a short time ago that I had been speaking to him. I worked for many years with Derrick. He was a great worker, and like myself, had a bit of a warped sense of humor. My condolences to you all on his passing.
Bob and the Dewling family. So sorry to hear of your loved one’s passing. We send our condolences, thoughts and prayers at this time.
Condolences to you and your family. Derrick was a co-worker for many years. You would not find a more genuine person. Rest in peace Derrick.
Dear Marilyn. Thinking of you. Please accept my sincerest condolences upon Derrick’s passing RIP Derrick
So sorry for your loss. I worked with Derrick for many years.
My condolences to Derrick’s family. I worked with him at CRA . May he Rest In Peace!
We were very sorry to learn of Derrick’s passing. We extend our sincere condolences to his immediate family and his siblings. Derrick was a friend who I lived next door to on Cabot Street.
Jack and Joyce Thompson
To the Dewling families, very sorry to hear of Derrick’s passing. We met for the first time in high school and always wonder was there a family connection. We reconnected at the Ice cap games as our seats were only a few seats apart and for that brief time we reconnected. Our prayers go out to you at this difficult time.
Dave Dewling (Doug’s brother)
To Derrick’s wife son Chris and the rest of his brothers and sisters. I am so sorry to hear of Derrick’s passing. I met Derrick in high school, along with his brother Dave and sister Judy. It was years later that I came to find out we had a common ancestor and were indeed cousins. While our paths did not cross often, I last saw Derrick at an Ice Caps game.. I enjoyed our brief chats. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I knew Derrick growing up and myself, Judy and Derrick played many board games when we were young. his sister Judy was my best friend and we apent many hours at each other,a house. Although I never saw Derrick over the years he will always be part of my childhood memories, may you rest in peace .
Dear Marilyn and Family,
Please accept our sincere condolences on Derrick’s passing. We fondly remember the beautiful evening we had with you and Derrick this summer up at Andrea and Gary’s place . Derrick was joyful and courageous and he entertained us that evening with his great sense of humor and dry wit. It was an evening we will never forget. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family at this very difficult time.
Dave to you and the Dewling clan, our sincere condolences on the loss of Derrick. Our thoughts are with you, my friend.
I am so sad to hear of Derrick’s passing. I send my deepest condolences to his family. I worked with Derrick for many years at CRA. He was a wonderful co-worker. I ran into him again on the hockey bus going and coming from the hockey games. He had a great sense of humor and a wonderful smile. Cherish your memories. RIP old friend.
I was so sorry to hear this and I’m sure all our former schoolmates and adult friends feel the same.. Very sad. Deepest condolences to Dave and all family. May you be consoled and may God bless.
Marilyn,
Thinking of you and sending sympathy to you and your family at this sad time.
Marilyn and John McGuire
sorry to hear about Derrick
Condolences to Chris, Paulina, and to his beautiful grandchildren Isaac, Mikes and Lennox in Calgary. Condolences to his family home in Newfoundland as well.
Dear Marilyn,,
Please accept my sincere condolences over the passing of your loving husband..
My. Prayers and thoughts are with you and your family..
God bless,
Please accept my sincere condolence over the loss of your loving husband..
,
Dear Marilyn, Scott, Jennifer, Julia, Claire, Fabian, Emma and other family and friends, we are so so sorry for your loss. Nothing can prepare you for a time like this, and there is nothing we can say that will truly make you all feel better right now. Except that our prayers are with you all, and we hope soon the time comes where you start to feel more joy in the memories of Derrick, than sadness at his loss. Deepest condolences..
My sincere condolences to the Dewling family, so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you during this difficult time. From an old neighbour and friend. Ron Thompson
Condolences to Christopher and all Family Members RIP Derrick .
So sorry to hear of Derricks passing. Condolences to his family. We worked together many years ago. He was such a great guy. Rest In Peace Derrick.
Sorry to hear of Derricks passing. I knew Derrick from CRA. He was so knowledge and helpful. Thoughts and prayers to all his family
Marilyn, Scott, Jennifer and kids.. I am so sad to hear of Derricks passing. Such a devastating loss for you and my prayers are with you all. I have some great memories of Derrick and I know how much he will be missed. May you find support in one another and comfort from the memories to help you deal with the tough days ahead. My deepest condolences.
So sad to hear of Derrick’s passing. I knew Derrick from CRA he was one of the nicest people I meet. Thoughts and prayers to the family.
Marilyn and family, so very sorry to hear of Derricks passing.. Thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Rest in peace Derrick
Marilyn and family, I am saddened beyond words
on the passing of my wonderful friend. Marilyn and
family, Derrick was the best any human being could
be, always a beautiful smile and a minute to chat, very kind and compassionate. When I look at the
brightest star in the sky I will see him smiling.
Keep his memories in your hearts and he
will always be with you.
Please accept my deepest condolences.✝✝✝
Marilyn and family,
Sorry to hear that Derrick passed away. We both worked with Derrick at the CRA and we have fond memories of his great sense of humour. Our thoughts are with all of you at this difficult time.
My deepest condolences to Derrick’s family, Derrick was a real gentleman, I went to school with Derrick and later years we met again working at CRA. RIP Derrick
Sincere condolences to all of Derrick.s family. I had the pleasure of working with him at CRA. REST IN PEACE.
Marilyn and family . We are saddened to hear of Derrick’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. RIP Derrick.
Marilyn and family:
We were saddened to hear of Derrick’s passing.. we always enjoyed his visits to the office. We will miss him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Linda Blakey
My deepest condolences to all of Derrick’s family. and friends. I worked with Derrick at CRA for many years and had a number of great conversations with him. So sad to hear this and so sorry for your loss. Rest in Peace Derrick!
Deepest sympathies to Derrick’s family. I worked with him at the CRA and through the union. Very down to earth. God bless you all as you grieve your loss. RIP Derrick.
My condolences to Derrick’s family. I worked with him at CRA and he always took the time to stop and have a chat. Sorry for your loss
Gerri Humber
My deepest condolences to Derrick ‘s family at this difficult time. I worked with Derrick for many years and we shared many fun and happy times. May Derrick fly with the angels♥️
So sorry to see this, I worked with Derrick, he was a true gentleman with a great dry wit. My condolences to all his loved ones.
Hugs to all of Derrick’s family. I worked with Derrick, at CRA.. He had a great sense of humour and was so easy going… He will be remembered…..
Sincere condolences on your loss. I had the pleasure of working with Derrick at CRA many years ago. He was always helpful and had a quiet sense of humour that made him a pleasure to be around. Rest in Peace.
Sincere condolences to Derrick’s family – we worked together years ago and I fondly remember him as knowledgeable and always helpful and pleasant. He had a great smile.
My sincere condolences and sympathy. Derrick was a nice man and a good co-worker. So sorry to hear of his passing.
Condolences Marilyn, to you and your family, so sorry to hear of Derrick passing. I really enjoyed working with him,.
Marilyn I’m so sorry to hear of Derrick’s passing. One of my favorite co workers and lunch companions. I missed him at the lunch table, after he retired. My condolences to you and your family.
To Derrick’s family: so sorry for your loss. He made me laugh a lot while working at CRA. God bless.
Dear Marilyn and family., Bob and I were so sad to hear of Derrick’s sudden passing . Sending our deepest sympathy , and keeping you in our prayers . Tina and Bob Coleman