Gary Curtis Parsons
May 5, 1963 to July 13, 2025
Obituary
Passed peacefully away on Sunday, July 13, Gary Curtis Parsons aged 62 of CBS originally from Greenspond, Bonavista Bay. He is predeceased by his parents, Baxter and Julia Parsons.
Leaving to mourn his loving wife, Jackie (nee Bartlett) of 36 years; his cherished son, Curtis; sisters Bessie Froude (Ray), Doreen Coward (George); brother, Reg Parsons (Shirley); mother-in-law, Joan Bartlett; brother-in-law, David Bartlett (Carol); special nephew and life-long friend, Rodney Coward (Margaret); his precious feline companion, Lynx; and a large circle of family and friends.
Gary was born and raised on Greenspond, Bonavista Bay, and left to pursue his post-secondary education as a young man. He obtained a Bachelor of Science, a Bachelor of Social Work and a Psychiatric Licensed Practical Nurse credential. He devoted his life to helping others through his work in counselling in the healthcare field and through lifelong friendships and family ties. To know Gary was to know a true friend. He was always there to lend a helping hand and share his kind and pleasant demeanor with everyone who knew him. Gary also had many hobbies including fishing, photography, and cooking; he loved cooking for family and friends, and one would never leave his dinner table without being full. Most of all, Gary was devoted to his family and to the lights of his life: Jackie and Curtis whom he loved dearly.
Gary is resting at Carnell’s Funeral Home, 329 Freshwater Road, on Tuesday, July 15 from 7-9 p.m., and Wednesday, July 16 from 2-4 and 7-9 p.m. Funeral service will be held from St. Mary the Virgin on Thursday, July 17 at 11 a.m.
Donations may be made to the charity of one’s choice, and flowers are most welcome.
Rest peacefully, beautiful soul
Schedule
Visitations
7-9 p.m. on July 15, 2025
2-4 p.m. on July 16, 2025
7-9 p.m. on July 16, 2025
Carnell’s Funeral Home
329 Freshwater Road
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funeral
11:00am, Thursday July 17th
St. Mary the Virgin
Jackie, I was so sad to hear of Gary’s passing. I met you many years ago when Gary’ sold me a set of tires. He had a good soul and was a good friend. He was only a call away when I needed some advice. He was very knowledgeable in a broad range of things. Even though I haven’t seen him in a few years, when I would run into him, it was like we spoken a few days prior. Again, I’m so sorry for your loss.
So very sad to hear of Gary’s passing. Both Lynda and I worked with Gary many years ago at the Waterford hospital.
Such a caring person.
Gary would have affected people where-ever he worked, as he was always a good listener and extremely interested in learning. I have a picture hanging in my house of the Bragg stage in Greenspond that he took and gave me when I left Wesleyville. He left this earth too soon. Condolences to his family.
Jackie & Curtis,
I am so sorry to hear of Gary’s passing. He fought so hard to stay with you both, but unfortunately there were other plans for him. I will never forget our many years working together & the fun we had as well as the wisdom he shared. He was a true friend who loved & lived life to the fullest. His generosity was beyond measure. We shared many a drink & meal & as stated many times, you never left his home empty handed with both belly & hands full. I will forever remember his very entertaining stories. He loved to laugh but I think received greater joy when he made someone else laugh.
You will be truly missed my friend.
Love and Prayers to you both Jackie & Curtis.
Christine Kelly
Sorry for your loss of a family member rip you are with God now
Condolences to all of Gary’s family and friends. I had the pleasure of working with Gary at the Waterford Hospital in the 90s. I hope you all find comfort in many beautiful memories of him
Condolences to his family
Jackie & Family, We were shocked & saddened to hear of Gary’s passing. Sincere Condolences to all the family,
Stella & Wilf Button , Lead Cove
I met Gary in 1985 in orientation at the Waterford hospital. There were a group of us who became lifelong friends. Brad, Paul, Andy, Junior, Chris, and others. Gary stood out as one of the more sensible of the lot but would see him often at work and get togethers outside of work, at least a couple of times sampling his specialty – stir fried squid. Gary was unerringly a fun and pleasant person to be around, always smiling, genuinely kind and humble by nature.. We lost touch over time and distance but I thought of him often. He left an impression on me and will be missed. An uncommonly “good guy” through and through.
Jackie and Curtis, we were saddened to hear of Gary’s passing. He will be missed in Lead Cove, we always knew when you were out, the music and the laughter coming from your place meant you were in your happy place! We will miss his presence.I
Nikki and Harvey
Jackie. So very sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. Be strong.
So sorry to hear of Gary’s passing, I played Softball and Darts with Gary,he was a real gentleman and a great bit of fun,especially when we would all have a little nip,Sincere condolences to all the family, he will be sadly missed,RIP my friend
To Gary’s family,
I have been trying to reconnect with Gary for many years and deeply saddened to make the connection through his passing. Gary was a fabulous friend who could be counted on for a good laugh and was always available to play ice hockey on the local pond or for a good game of poker, with the odd nip. Got to know him through our circle of friends in the Valleyfield area and also during my stint at MUN. All in all, a great person with a huge heart. He will definitely be missed by all. So sorry about your loss.
Doreen & Family,
Sorry to hear of your brother’s passing. Blessings to you all as you begin to deal with your loss..
So sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you both Jackie and Curtis. We’ve lost a great person. Take care.
So sorry to hear of Gary’s passing, we worked together for a couple of years. He was also so pleasant , kind and helpful to anyone in need.
To his family, so sorry for your loss for I’m sure he will be a tremendous void in all your lives.
Cherish the wonderful memories
Patsy
To Gary’s Family,
I am so sorry to learn that Gary has passed away . I knew him for many years as we both worked in mental health services. He was always so kind , professional and supportive of clients and staff . Nothing was ever too much for him to handle . We always talked about retiring as we are the same age and we would laugh about the countdown . May he Rest in Peace 🙏
Parsons family,
I haven’t seen Gary in many years. So very sorry to hear of his passing.. I remember visiting with Mom and Dad (Roy and Lena Torraville) many yrs ago, and remember Gary being a very quiet person, I guess he didn’t change.
Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss.
Bryan and Pansy Wright.
Jackie and Curtis,
We were deeply saddened to hear of Gary’s passing. Please accept our heartful condolences. We can only imagine the pain you’re experiencing during this time. May the cherished memories you shared bring you comfort and peace in the days ahead.
Had the chance to know Gary from Wednesday Night Dart League. Always had a smile and was a genuine nice man. My deepest condolences on your loss. May he rest in peace.
Kurt, I am so sorry to hear about your dad’s passing. He’s at peace now with no more suffering. Keep all those special memories close to your heart. Sending my deepest condolences to your mom during this difficult time. ❤️
Jackie and Curtis
Both Joan and I wish to express our heartfelt condolences on the passing of Gary. Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time.
George and Joan Michelau
Gary used to counsel my mom and our family after my dad’s passing. He was always kind, and understanding. He really helped us through a difficult period. My deepest condolences to his family and friends.
It’s sad that it takes a death to know distant family members. Life takes us on many journeys far away and therefore we lose touch
I did not know Gary but as a distant relative, I want to say how sorry I am that yet another life is gone asleep in death.
But we do have the Precious Hope of seeing all our Loved ones again, here on Earth. Just as God’s Word, the Bible tells us.
John 5:28,28:
(28) Do not be amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice (29) and come out, those who did good things to a resurrection of life, and those who practiced vile things to a resurrection of judgment.
Kurt
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. I know there are no words to ease the pain and sadness you are feeling but take comfort in knowing his suffering is over. Thinking of you and your mom during this difficult time and I will keep you both in my prayers!
Big hugs!
I met Gary when I took over his job when he was retiring. He was so kind, patient, encouraging and supportive as I navigated stepping into that role. I’ve heard wonderful things about him from his coworkers and past clients. I am so sorry for this extraordinary loss.
Jackie, Curtis and family,
So sorry to read of Gary’s passing. My late husband, Sean worked with Gary at the Waterford Hospital and we had may visits and chats with you guys when you live on Nelder Drive.
Jackie and family
My sincere condolences on the passing of Gary . I had the good fortune of working and playing with Gary at the Waterford hospital in the mid 80s. Such a kind fella- He always had a smile on his face and was always up for a good laugh and a bit of fun .
Cherish the wonderful memories you all have at this difficult time.
Sincere condolences to his family and friends
So sorry for your loss. Sincere condolences to you Jackie and to all your family
Jackie, Curtis and family..
We were incredibly saddened to learn of Gary’s passing. . We have shared so many wonderful experiences over the years. Gary loved music, gardening, good food and took great pleasure in sharing what he had with others.. He made the best nachos ever. Whenever we came to visit he would always make sure you had a little something from his freezer. His kindness and generosity were unmatched. We cherish the many memories created during our many May 24th weekends spent at the cabin in Lead Cove. Gary was a true friend and we feel so privileged and honoured to have had him in our lives. He will be truly missed.
Please accept our sincerest sympathy for your loss. We are thinking of you and Curtis and sending love and comfort during this difficult time. Gary was a wonderful husband and an amazing father, his legacy will always be remembered. He had a great sense of humour. He will be missed.
Gary’s family
I was a patient of Gary several years ago – his empathy and counselling helped me deal with the passing of my wife .
He was an important part of my life at that time.
Gary was a person who had exceptional interpersonal skills -he was kind and compassionate.
He talked often of his family to whom he was endeared .
Sincere condolences to those who mourn his passing .
Godspeed Gary
Dear Jackie and Curtis,
I was heartbroken to hear of your loss. Please accept my deepest and most sincere condolences.
What you both gave Gary in these last months—your time, your presence, your love—was extraordinary. Jackie, to care for him full-time was a selfless act of devotion. And Curtis joining your mom in that effort, standing by her side so neither of you had to face it alone, was a quiet act of courage and compassion.
Together, you surrounded him with the comfort of family, the peace of being known and loved, and the dignity that only comes when care is given from the heart.
I hope you’re both able to find moments of rest and comfort in the days ahead, even in the midst of your grief. And I hope you feel the deep respect and support of those around you — including me.
Please don’t hesitate to reach out if there’s anything at all I can do.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Sharon Dalton
Jackie,
Condolences to you and Curtis.
Dennis
Jackie we are so shocked and deeply saddened to hear of Gary’s passing. Our sincere condolences to both you and Curtis and the Parson Family
Darryl & Peggy Nixon
To The Family and Friends of Gary so sorry to hear of Gary’s passing sending our deepest condolences at this time.
My Condolences to family and friends.
So shocked to hear this Jackie. Sincere condolences to you and family. Enjoyed both softball and darts with him. He enjoyed having a laugh for sure. !!!
Jackie what a shock it was ro see this. Such a young man. My condolences to you and your son.
There are no words to express how sorry I am to hear this sad news . Last visit on Friday Gary wouldn’t let me leave without him giving me lamb chops from his freezer… that’s the kind of person he was . Always giving … always the nicest friend . I will forever miss our chats … rest easy my friend .
My deepest condolences to Jackie and Curtis .
To Gary’s family, I had the pleasure of playing softball with Gary in the MPMSPSL and he was a fine person to have on our team. The laughs and stories we had while at the clubhouse were the best. RIP Gary.
Jackie and Curtis,
We are so sorry to hear the sad news and our hearts go out to you both. Please accept our sincerest condolences.
Beth and Ray
Dear Jackie and Curtis,
Coralee and I are incredibly sad to learn of Gary’s passing. A fine man who’ll be missed terribly. We can both attest to his great skills in the kitchen and how much fun it was to be in his company
Coralee and I send you all our love, and sincerest condolences . We’ll see you soon,
So sorry for your loss!Condolences to family and friends of Gary . Gary was a fine man and I enjoyed a many games of chess with Gary. He was a dedicated worker as easy to work with .. gods speed my friend
Jackie and family,
My sincere condolences on the passing of your husband, father, and loved one. Thinking of you at this difficult time.
Karen Barbour
Jackie and Curtis,
So sorry to read about Gary’s passing.
I have many memories of our time working together in Mental Health ( so many stories to tell) and the fun we had when we were “almost” neighbours when you guys lived on Tweedsmuir. Gary helped Gord build our deck and there was always a feed of turbot cheeks. And then, Gary “saved” Adam when he fell in the river at the cabin.
Gary left us with wonderful memories and joy in our hearts. May he rest easy.
To Jackie,Curtis and the Parsons family,
So sorry to hear of Gary’s passing. My prayers are with you all at this sad time. Hold on to your memories which I’m sure there are many. Our condolences to you all.