Mary Francis Murphy
September 9, 1950 to January 22, 2022
Obituary
It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Mary Francis Murphy after a lengthy courageous battle with cancer.
Mary Francis Murphy, age 71, passed peacefully away at the palliative care unit on Jan 22, 2202 in the presence of her husband Des. Unfortunately, due to covid restrictions Mary’s entire family and friends were unable to visit her, but rest assure she was aware of all your love and well wishes.
Predeceased by her parents Violet and Vince Raymond and many aunts and uncles.
Leaving to mourn with fond and loving memories her husband of 50 years Des; sons Tony (Michelle) and Chris; grandchildren Riely and Willow; sisters Peggy (Rick), Marion (Brian), Connie (Craig); brothers Gerry, Vince (Alice), Paul (Donna), Terry, Des (Ramona); brother in law Kevin; nieces Kim, Vanessa, Stephanie, Shannon, Sarah, Jessica, and Madison; nephews Bradley, Liam, Mitchell, Ryan and Justin; as well as close friends John and Patsy Murphy.
Mary had a personality larger than life that could only be matched by the size of her heart. Mary had great love and pride for her family, she loved being the big sister and favorite aunt. She cherished family events and was always taking pictures that she turned into gifts.
The family would like to express their deepest gratitude to the nurses and doctors involved in Mary’s care at St. Clare’s ER, ICU, 6E, endoscopy as well as the staff at the Dr. H. Bliss Murphy cancer clinic and the Palliative care unit at the Miller Center.
Special thanks to Mary’s sister Connie and Dr. Thava who went above and beyond to care for and help Mary during her lengthy illness.
As per Mary’s wishes cremation has taken place and we will announce a service time when covid restrictions allow us to invite her friends and extended family to celebrate her life with us.
Donations in her memory may be made to the Dr. H. Bliss Murphy Cancer Care Foundation.
In true Mary form
“Remember me with smiles and laughter for that is how I will remember you all, if you can only remember me with tears then don’t remember me at all.”
My condolences to the Raymond and Murphy families. Mary was a childhood friend from many years ago .Mary always had a twinkle in eyes and huge smile .
Condolences to Des and family members on the passing of Mary-There’s been a number of years since i ”bumped’ into Des’Always a lovely family–Our thoughts and prayers-GOD Bless–Jim/wife Nelia Campbell St. John’s
Des and family: We were deeply saddened to hear of Mary’s passing. Please accept our sincere condolences,. We will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers during these very difficult days.
Dear Des, Tony and Chris, and to Peggy and the entire Raymond family, my deepest sympathies for your loss. I will always remember Mary as feisty and funny, managing the family affairs from “upstairs”. May you find comfort in the many wonderful memories of Mary that you carry within..
Peggy, Marion, Connie, Gerry, Vince, Paul, Terry, and Des. I was shocked when I saw Mary’s picture. I remember when we sang at her wedding to Des. She was such a strong, proud woman and had a great sense of humor. Please remember the love and laughter. Mary is in heaven now having a laugh with those that have gone before her. God bless all of you at this sad time.
The world is a dark and gloomy place and only someone like you who is kind, thoughtful, considerate and full of life can bring sunshine and laughter into an otherwise very gloomy world. You my dear friend are one of a kind whose friendship and memories will live in our hearts and minds forever. You will be sadly missed but lovingly remembered by those whose lives you touched. Des and family so sorry for your loss. Hope you find comfort in all the love and happiness you shared through out the years.
our deepest sympathies to Des and all the Murphy ,Raymond families on Mary”s passing. Eileen and Adrian Barron
Peggy, Marion, Connie, Gerry, Vince, Paul, Terry, and Des.
I was deeply saddened to receive the news of Mary’s passing. Please accept my most hearfelt condolences. Stay strong and treasure the wonderful memories of your beautiful sister. God bless you all.
Karen Baird
So sorry to hear about Mary’s passing, just heard about it ,today. Our deepest condolences to all the family and friends. Rest In Peace Mary.
Leonard Howlett and family
I would like to send my sincere and deepest condolences to you Des and your family. I’m so sorry to hear of Mary’s passing.
She was such a beautiful person. I feel so lucky to have known Mary and we had so many good times while working together. She will be missed.
My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
May she RIP.
My condolences to Des and family on Mary.’s passing.. May she RIP.
Sorry Des , Gerry and Families for your loss.
Bob Kirby
Dear Des and Family,
Deepest prayers and Sympathy on Mary’s
Passing.
Will remember her in my masses.
May her gentle soul Rest in peace.
FR.BILL PENNEY
OTTAWA
My sincere and deepest condolences to Mary’s husband and family. I am so saddened to learn she has passed away. I first met Mary when I worked with her, when I was just 18 years old, and the one thing you could always count on was her smile and laughter. I have so many fond memories of Mary, she was a joy to be around.
Mary, rest in peace and may God surround you with His light, love and peace. I know Mr. Neary is welcoming you with open arms, for you were one of his favorites. Some people leave an impression that can’t be erased, you were one of those people.
There is much laughter in heaven now that Mary has joined the angels. With heartfelt sympathy to all her family.
Thinking of Chris and your family at this sad time. Knowing your Mom since we were little girls. Bless you.💕
My deepest sympathy to Des, Tony and Chris. Working with Mary for many, many years, there was never a dull moment when she was around. She was always up to joking around making everyone laugh. You didn’t know what to expect when she was in that playful mood. But we all knew she loved her family dearly.. I am sure she will be deeply missed by them all.
Rest In Peace Mary.
Dear Des, Tony and Chris,
Sending you our deepest and heartfelt condolences on Mary’s passing. She will be dearly missed and is surely in the arms of her Mom and Dad. Wishing you peace, comfort, courage and lots of love at this time of sorrow. Our thoughts and prayers are with you
Tony and Linda Raymond
To Mary’s family, my thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this very sad time. Rest in peace Mary.
Des and family sorry to hear of Mary’s passing,, thinking of you all at this sad time.Peggy and Wilf
Chris and family,
Sincere sympathy on your Mother’s passing.
My thoughts are with you.
Jane
Des and family. We are sorry for your loss and are thinking of you at this difficult time.
Des & Family
There are no words that one can say at this difficult time in your lives, the family circle now has one less but Mary will always be with you in good times as well as rough times, her love for each of you is never ending in life and beyond.
Our prayers go to each and everyone. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Our deepest condolences on the passing of your precious loved one..Rest in peace Mary.
Des and family ,sorry to hear of Mary’s passing .Please accept our condolences .Hold onto the happy memories for that is what will get you through ,the sad days ahead .may she Rest In Peace
My sincere condolences to Mary’s husband Des, her Sons Tony & Chris & all her sisters & brothers during this difficult time . May God give you the strength to accept your loss . Hold your precious memories close to your heart . She was a courageous fighter . God speed Mary. Soar with the angels. ,you have earned your wings .
Dear Des, Tony and Chris,
I’m so very sorry to read of Mary’s passing. I certainly remember her many smiles and much laughter as my next door neighbour on Holbrook Avenue. She truly was a marvellous woman. You must all be devastated.
Please accept our deepest condolences.
The Hammond Family – Roseanne. Nicole, Stephen and Andrew.
Des & Family. So sorry for you lost.May she rest in peace. Hugs to all.Sue Kelly Bishop.
We were saddened to hear of Mary’s passing. Please accept our deepest condolences .
Mary was a friend and co worker that touched many lives with her kindness and sense of humour. She brought laughter to our hearts in ways that others couldn’t.
She will be missed by many, but the memories she blessed us with will never be forgotten.
I want to send my love to her family who she loved dearly❤️I am so sorry for your loss
Des & family. Can’t express the sorrow we feel with Marys passing ,she truly bought so much love & lots of laughs to uncle Lar & me,,we will forever keep her in our hearts
Love to you all ,uncle Lar &. The misses as Mary would say,,
RIP friend
Des and family, please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of your loving wife Mary. May your wonderful memories help ease your pain during this difficult time. God Bless.
Marion Butler
To Des and family deepest sympathy to you on Marys passing may she rest in peace .You are in my thoughts and prayers Des and family..
Gerry, Terry, Vince and families
Very sorry for your loss. Cherish the wonderful memories at this difficult time.
To Des and family, my deepest condolences in Mary’s passing. May the many memories of her give you smiles and courage to deal with tomorrow’s challenges..
My deepest condolences for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with Mary’s family and friends. Heartbreaking.
Dear Des & Family
My deepest condolences to you and your family at this difficult time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
So sad to hear this sad news about your beloved Mary.
May God hold her in the palm of his hand till you meet again.
Sincerely
Bert Bussey, Kanata, Ontario
Mary Murphy such a strong and resilient women who has made a difference in so many lives, especially mine.
At times you acted so tuff but was a softy with the kindest most generous heart. You never believed in taking it easy, if one door closed for you, you would open another. Always there with a helping hand for anyone. . I’ve know you a long time but you became my sister of my heart when you took me under your wing and gave me the freedom to create and love your decorating business.. Your brides always got more then they expected and more then you got paid because each bride was special to you . You made sure their wedding day was as special as they dreamed it would be no matter what the cost even a broken leg. Mary you touched so many lives as you walked this earth but lady did you ever leave a remarkable impression on us all Love you lady ❤️ always and forever
Sending much love to Des and all her family . May all the wonderful memories help you during these dark and sad days
❤️Always
Des and family, please accept our deepest condolences on Mary’s passing. May she rest in eternal peace.
Mary and John Batterton, King’s Cove
Des and family, so sorry to hear of Mary’s passing. Condolences to you and your family.
My dearest cousin Mary,
I wish I could have spent more time with you, getting to know the truly wonderful person you were.
May you rest in the arms of your Loving Mom and Dad. No more pain. No more tears. You’re home now.
Love
Paulette
So sorry to hear of the passing of your dear mother. You have great memories I’m sure. Thinking of you all.
Des & Family we are so sorry to hear of Mary’s Passing Our Deepest Condolences to You And Your Family , Mary May You Rest In Heavenly Peace .God Bless You All.
My most heartfelt condolences to all Mary’s family. May she Rest in Peace.
Dear Des, Tony and Chris, and all close family,
Please accept our heartfelt condolences. Mary got to grow-up in such a huge, varied family. My best memories of her are the many Sundays we spent as children gathered in Goulds with the Raymond’ clan all those years ago.
Mary was eight years older then me and back in those days, was one of the “grown-up” kids who automatically “shepherded” the huge number of kids her Grand Mother proudly acknowledged.
Nothing but fond memories.
Joanne Mercer and Tom Lawlor