
For those unable to attend the funeral service for the Late Shirley Bastow on Tuesday, August 13th at 11:00 a.m. may view it via this link: https://view.oneroomstreaming.com/index.php?data=MTcyMzIzNDUyNjMyMjk1OSZvbmVyb29tLWFkbWluJmNvcHlfbGluaw==
It is with profound sadness that we announce her peaceful passing in the presence of her loving family on August 8, 2024 in her 89th year.
Predeceased by husband Francis Oliver on November 20, 2004 and her sons, Gary in 1994 and Danny in 2004; brother Earle, and sisters Marjorie and Marilyn.
Leaving to mourn with broken hearts and a lifetime of memories are her children: Frank Jr. (Ann Marie), Fern Kean (Bob), Rosalind Hennessey (Andy) with whom she resided for the past 20 years, Randy (Sandra), Hope Young (Calgary, AB), Darrell, 10 grandchildren: Jennifer, Leanne, Jessica, Jackalyn, Meagan, Alison, Colby, Angela, Curtis and Kirk and 5 great grandchildren Madison, Nathan, Claire, Hailey and Emma.
Left with fond, loving memories her brother Harvey Zwicker (Ottawa).
Special sisters-in-law Beatrice Wadland, Rose Thaine, June Gullage and Joan Bastow, as well as a large circle of other relatives and friends including fur babies Sofie and Maggie who constantly kept her company.
The family wishes to express our deepest gratitude to her daughter Rosalind and her husband Andy for the excellent care given to her during the last 20 years. It did not go unnoticed. Our thanks also to the Eastern Health Care Team doctors and nurses and the Palliative/Paramedic teams for their compassionate care.
Cremation has taken place.
Visitation to be held at Carnell’s Funeral Home, 329 Freshwater Road from 2 p.m. to 9 p.m. on Monday, August 12th.
Funeral service to take place on Tuesday August 13th, 2024 at 11:00 a.m. at the Carnell Memorial Chapel. Interment to follow in the Field of Honour, Mount Pleasant Cemetery.
Flowers gratefully accepted as Shirley loved her flower garden.
“A mother holds her children’s hands for a while, their hearts forever.”
Carnell’s Funeral Home
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Interment to follow in F.O.H., Mt. Pleasant Cemetery
I just learned about Shirley’s passing. My heartfelt condolences to the family at this difficult time. Nothing takes the place of a mother’s unconditional love for her family, that’s a memory that will live on forever. I have very fond memories of Shirley, always a bright smile with a cheerful welcome. I can still picture the fern plant she so carefully grew in her house; it was the longest I have ever seen. Shirley and my mom Jean (Grouchy) Lacelle shared a long-standing friendship. Wishing the Bastow family peace and comfort. Rest In Peace Shirley.
Deepest condolences to Fern, Ros and the entire family on the loss of your precious Mom. Shirley was a beautiful and remarkable lady with such poise and loved by all whose lives she touched. I’ll always remember her smiling and welcoming face whenever I visited your home on Blackmarsh Rd.
Cherish the wonderful memories and let her love live on in your hearts forever. Rest in peace Shirley. 🙏💞
Joan (Crane) and Wayne Driscoll
My Sincere Condolences to the entire Bastow family and friends.
Fond Memories of her pleasant smile from growing up on Perlin street.
My mother still refers to the house across the street as The Bastow’s place 🙂
My her sweet soul rest in peace
I love ya’ll!
Condolences to Rosalind Randy and Family ,
To Shirley’s Family
I have fond memories of spending time at your home with my mother (Joan Rodgers/ cousin to your mom).. I believe it was on Blackmatsh Road, and there were lots of laughs, and such a big family gathering! Years later we visited her again, 1988, and I believe a few visits after that. Your mom was so friendly and welcoming, please accept sincere condolences from my mom and I.
We are thinking of you all during this difficult time. Your Mom was one special lady. We have so many great memories of her from her laughing at Noel’s jokes to our chats about what happened on the story today. She was beautiful inside and out and we will also miss her dearly. Rest in peace “mudder”
Dear Fern,
We are so sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing. May you find consolation in the years of memories and the support of Family and Friends at this sad time. We extend our deepest sympathy to you and the Bastow Family.
Clayton and Julie Smith
Randy, Ros, Hope, Fern, Darryl and family:
Shirley was a bright light, one of the sweetest and most kind person I’ve been blessed to know. Her smile would light up the room and I sincerely enjoyed all the time I’ve spent with her over the years, going all the way back to being a teenager and hanging at the house on Perlin Street and in recent years for Randy’s annual birthday gatherings. My deepest condolences to you all, and to the rest of your family at this time. May she rest in eternal peace xo
Rosalind and family
So sorry to hear this news
I met her years ago. She was so sweet and she gave me an angel necklace which I still have.
Good By dear one RIP.
Very sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing. She was such a pleasant lady and I will always remember how she would call me “Doogie Howser” whenever I would see her haha. I hope you all are able to take time and reflect on all the lovely memories you’ve shared over the years and may they bring you peace and joy. Sending you all our condolences.
Fern, Ros, Hope & Family,
So sorry for the loss of your dear Mother. May she rest in peace. Helen Jensen ( Eugene Vaters)
Sincere Condolences to all the Bastow family on the passing of Your Mother. Miss her calls. R.I.P. Shirley.
Ros,Andy and Family I’m so sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing.She was such a lovely lady.I’ll never forget her soft spoken voice and that beautiful smile.My thoughts and prayers go out to you all.May she rest in peace now.🙏❤️
Randy and Family,
So sorry to hear about your mothers passing.
My Thoughts and Prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Caring Hugs
Linda
My deepest sympathy to you and your family during this very difficult and sad time.
To Frank & family,
We are so sorry for the loss of your precious mother. Thoughts & prayers go out to you during this difficult time. Our condolences to all the family.
Derry & Juanita Nicholl
We are truely sad for your loss … our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family … xoxoxo
Condolences to you and you family.
We are so very sorry for your loss, and sending our thoughts and prayers to you and your family. ❤️