Dorothy Abery (nee Neal)
November 18, 1939 to May 17, 2021
Obituary
To view the funeral service for Dorothy Abery for Friday, May 28th, at 2:00 p.m. from St Andrew’s Presbyterian Church please follow this link: https://youtu.be/hezv46o8M2M
Amy Dorothy Forbes (Neal ) Abery passed peacefully away at Chancellor Park, St. John’s, NL on May 17, 2021. Dorothy was predeceased by her loving husband of 37 years, Dennis Abery; parents Amy Lawrence (Neal) & David Neal; brothers Douglas and Bruce Neal; sister Elizabeth Butler; sister-in-law Joyce Goss and brothers-in-law Harold Butler and Cyril Abery. Leaving to mourn her cherished daughter Jane and “son” Carl Quinlan; sisters-in-law Levina Neal and Sylvia Pretty (Clyde); special niece Tracy Sullivan (Terry) and her children Kyle and Hailie Butler (Alex); along with her nieces, nephews and a wide circle of lifelong friends.
Dorothy is also predeceased by her second husband Robert (Bob) Doyle and leaves to mourn her loving stepchildren: Robert (Toni), Paul (Peggy), Susan (Derek) & Sara (Anthony) and step daughter-in-law Karen Doyle.
A very special thank you to the dedicated staff of Chanchellor Park who embraced Dorothy and fell under her spell providing her with the most compassionate care.
Dorothy loved life to the fullest. She enjoyed many travel adventures, any opportunity to socialize and being surrounded by her family and friends. Always stylish, never shy to offer an opinion, a social bridge player, talented pianist and avid antique collector were just a few attributes that made Dorothy such a gregarious and vibrant individual. At the prime of her career, she received several regional and national salesperson of the year awards with Welcome Wagon. Above all, her greatest source of pride and joy was her only daughter, Jane.
At her request, Dorothy has been cremated. Given the global pandemic and respecting her self diagnosis of germaphobia, there will not be a visitation. A funeral service will be held at St. Andrew’s Presbyterian Church (The Kirk) on May 28th at 2 PM which will be live streamed for those that wish to join virtually. A limited number can gather in person at The Kirk. To request an invitation, please email dorothysfuneral@gmail.com
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to The Kirk Building Fund, Community Food Sharing Association or Newfoundland Cancer Treatment and Research Foundation. To leave a condolence, please visit www.carnells.com
Hello Jane;
I just learned of your mother’s passing today. My heart breaks for you and your family.
She was a great friend to my mother during their time together at Chancellor Park. I guess they are together again and watching over us both.
I will miss her and remember her fondly.
When I was a child, I would love when we would visit Aunt Dorsie and Uncle Dennis as I knew I would always find a Purity Peppermint or two when I arrived. She will be deeply missed . I’m very grateful that she made the trek to Nova Scotia for mine and Jon’s wedding – it was so special to have her in attendance.
Jane
We were very saddened to hear of Aunt “Dorsie’s” passing.. Luckily, I had an opportunity to speak with her a few days earlier. We deeply miss my mother’s fun loving sister.
Craig, Karen, Kali & Zachary Butler
My deepest condolences to you all. I met Dorothy through working at the Kirk. To say she brightened each visit or phone call would be an understatement.
We had many delightful conversations over the years and most of them circled back to lipstick and wine!
This photo just says it all. I will miss her. Sending heartfelt thoughts and prayers to you..
I enjoyed the time we spent as roomates at Chancellor Park. I was so very sorry to hear of your passing.
Sincere condolences to your family.
Jane & Carl,
Deepest condolences regarding the passing of your mother. Take care and stay safe.
Jane,
So sorry to hear of your loss. I remember your mother as always having a smile on her face, the picture her brings back lots of memories!
Sincere condolences,
Janet
I was so sad to hear of your loss, please accept our sincerest condolences.
Jane and Carl
So sorry to hear of your Mother’s passing. I remember how important she was to you both. Kindest regards.
Jane,
So very sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. I know how very close you were and I’m sending my deepest condolences.
Sydney Ann
Jane, Carl and family,,,,Please accept our sincere condolences to you and your family during this sad time. May she Rest In Peace,,,,,
Jane, So sorry to learn of your mother’s passing. Sincere condolences to all the family. I will remember her fondly.
Jane and Carl – My sincere condolences on the passing of your mother. We had many good times and memories over the years. She will be missed. Sincerely, Ruth Lawlor
Jane, Carl and family. Janie, the day I asked for your eraser in Grade 7 I didn’t know I was to gain not only a lifelong friend but also a wonderful “Mama.” I was always so welcomed by your mom. We had so so many fun chats and laughs in those years in your living room. Mama made those times so much richer. I cherish the memories with her and I hope they carry you forward through the difficult days ahead. Thinking of you, Carl, Tracy and the rest of your family.
Jane and Carl,
So very sorry to hear of the passing of your dear Mom. She was quite a remarkable lady who left quite a positive and lasting impression on me. I hold very special memories of her and the fun times we shared at your home. My sincerest condolences you both.
Jane and Carl,
My sincerest sympathy. It was my pleasure meeting your mom at Greycliffe. We always enjoyed a chat. May she rest in peace.
Jane and Carl,
I knew your mother for decades and saw her fairly often over those years. There was never an occasion that her presence did not brighten. I will miss her.
My deepest sympathy.
Mary Chalker
Carl & Jane – so sorry to hear of the passing of your beloved Dorothy.
Much sympathy to you and your families.
Thinking of you all in your time of grief.
Marilyn Woodfine & family
Jane, I was saddened to hear of your mom’s passing. We had many conversations over the years and lots of them included you and how you were doing. She was so proud of you and you could always hear the love in her voice. She was sweet, vibrant and proud. Remember all the good times. Thinking of you…
Jane, we are so sorry to see that you and Carl have lost your mom. We know the ache left in your hearts. Please accept our deepest condolences.
Lew (Chipper) and Kay
Jane and Carl and family.:
So sorry to hear of Dorothy’s passing.. She was such a lively and caring person. It was an honour to be her minister. She loved you so very much and love is the greatest gift of all. May the Peace of Christ in which she now rests be yours as you celebrate precious memories. Dave Sutherland
Jane & Carl, we are so sorry to hear of your mother’s passing. We knew Dorothy well from her time at Grey Cliffe especially at our socials. Our sincere condolences to you on your loss. We will remember her in our prayers. Rest In Peace Dorothy.
Jane & Carl, Tracy & Terry and family:,
We’re so very sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved mother and aunt. I have such vivid memories of “Aunt Dot”, from growing up on the “Crescent”, and visiting the family cottage in Topsail.
She had such a vibrant spirit, alive with humour, laughter and I remember her always smiling!
That spirit touched so many lives in a positive way, may it bring you all comfort during this sad time.
Jane and Carl,
My heartfelt condolences on the passing of your mother. When conversations included your mom, I always pictured a woman who was the epitome of grace, style, with an unwavering love of family. Memories have a wonderful way of helping us through the loss of a loved one, for they never fade. Take care; you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Jane and Carl,
very sorry to hear of your mother’s passing. My sincere condolences.
Jane and Carl,
Your mother was a remarkable woman. She left an indelible mark on the many people who were fortunate enough to have known her. May your many memories together bring you comfort. We are thinking of you at this sad time.
Dear Jane and Carl,
We are so sorry to learn of your precious mother’s passing. She was so fun to be around. She will be truly missed. Thinking of you at this time.
Melva and Al Rumbolt
Dear Jane,
My deepest condolences to you on the loss of your mother. I had the pleasure of knowing Dorothy over the years while she lived at Grey Cliffe. She was a truly fine woman and will be sorely missed. May your warm memories bring you comfort at this difficult time.
Jane and Carl,
So sorry to hear of your moms passing. She was a kind loving soul who would always light up a room with her outgoing personality. I always enjoyed running into her as we always parted in fits of laughter.
May the wonderful memories you have gathered over the years help to keep her close in your heart always. My sincere sympathies to you both.
Jane: So sorry to learn of your Mom’s passing. She was such a friendly and vibrant lady. Our sincere condolences to you and Carl.
Jane, your Mom was always a bright light in our family and so a part of my growing up in our family.. Particularly remember the traditional boxing day festivities your Mom would host at your family home. on Morrison Crescent (Your Mom’s Cod au Gratin ruled!!!!) Lots of love and cheer and all were
always welcomed. Also loved when I would travel home with Eric in his toddler and youth days. Dorothy would always have a loot bag ready for him to take away.. So full of life and loving. She was a wonderful Aunt to me and a great Great Aunt to Eric. I shall never forget her hugs and sweet smile. When speaking with Eric he also remembers so well her kindness and the ‘loot bags’. when he would visit. Love you to both you Jane and Carl..
Anne Marie and Norm.
Jane, so very sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing. We remember her fondly from the neighbourhood and
car pooling with your family to Brinton School. Sincere condolences to you and Carl.
Don and Elsie Rideout
Jane and Carl, so sad to hear this news. Your Mom looms large in all the fond memories growing up. She was always larger than life and always knew every person mentioned in a conversation (or their aunt, or daughter). Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Jane and Carl (and family) – we are thinking about you at this tough time.
Jane and Carl, I was very sorry to hear of your moms passing. She was a lovely lady and enjoyed her company., especially at the parties at Grey Cliff. My prayers are with you.
Jane, I am the younger sister of Lorraine Easton Goosney and I remember your. Mom with fond memories with Lorraine and the rest of the girls on card/needle point night. Your Mom was a her cherry person and loved seeing her. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family with your Mom’s passing…
bY Joy Easton Colbert
Jane. I am deeply saddened to hear of Aunt Dorothy’s passing. She will always be remembered for her larger than life smile, laugh, and her ability to brighten up a room. She was a dear friend to mom. She will be missed. Love, Janet (Warren) Peters
Jane and Carl – I’m so very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you both during this difficult time and sending hugs and sympathy.
Jane,
We knew your mother well and are sorry to hear of her passing. She was a wonderful, vibrant lady and certainly one of a kind. We will miss seeing her. Please accept our sincere condolences
Ted & Maureen Rowe
’Dear Jane and Carl:
Please accept my deepest sympathy on your Mom’s passing. I know how very special she was to you. It is always so painful to lose one’s mom. They say time is a great healer and I’m sure in time, (perhaps a lot of time), you will be able to recall many fond memories of her without too heavy a heart.
Be assured my thoughts are with you at this very sad time.
Sincerely,
Libby Moore
Jane and Carl,
As you mourn the loss of a very special mother, may you find strength in all of your wonderful memories together. She will never be far from your heart.
Jane and Carl, deepest sympathy on your mom’s passing. My family has such wonderful memories of packing all the kids in the car an driving to Britton Memorial. Cherish the wonderful memories and know how much you were loved. Blessings
Jane and Carl,
I was so sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing. I have many fond memories of her smiling face and bubbly personality during Bridge games, parties, and church events. My thoughts are prayers are with you both as well as the extended family.
Susan Elton Squires
Jane and Carl,
So sorry to hear of your moms passing. May all your treasured memories bring you comfort at this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Leigh Ann, Mike and Katelyn
Jane, I’m so sorry to hear of the loss of your dear mother. My condolences to you and your family. Cherish the memories.
Doreen and Ed Michael.
Jane
Sorry to hear about your Mom. She had such large and jolly personality!!! Thinking of you at this time.
Jane, we were saddened to hear of your mother’s passing. She was a wonderful neighbour. Sending condolences.
Wendy and Max Batten
Jane, so sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. I met your mom once and she was a lady who loved fun, great sense of humor and loved life. Sincere condolences.
Jane, Carl and family,
Very sorry to learn of the loss of your mother. Such a vibrant, delightful woman. I can remember her laughing with all the Club Ladies when it was my mom’s turn to host. My sincere sympathies on your loss. Very sorry I cannot offer them in person due to the current pandemic situation.
Jane, I am so sorry to hear of your mom’s passing.
Jane, Carl and family. We were so sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. We hold dear many wonderful memories of her and a life well lived and we hope your treasured memories will be a comfort to you at this time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. With our sincere sympathy Pam, Ken and Kendra
Jane and Carl my condolences to you both and your family. It was indeed a pleasure to have been lucky enough to have known her. Take Care
Jane you are in my prayers and thoughts. I knew your dear Mother through my sister Mary Parsons. They had such a fun-loving relationship. I know Dorothy will be missed by many. My sympathies.
Jane, Carl and family. so sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you and all of the wonderful memories of your mother. She touched many lives with her kindness, humour, smile, piano playing and singing , and will live on in our hearts.. Our sympathies Peter and Patrick
Jane, Carl and family so sorry to hear of your mothers passing. My condolences to you and your family.
Take care
Thinking of you and of the memories we shared with mother.. Take care God bless.
Jane & Carl,
So sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. From meeting her and the stories Jane told, with impersonations, as they say in Newfie, she was “quite the character”. So many great memories of her for sure. Our thoughts and prayers to you both. Linda, Tom, Jordyn, and Jack Mercer
Jane , Carl and Family,
We are so sorry to hear of Dorothy’s passing. Every time we met her, she had a friendly smile and always mentioned Jane and Carl. It is always so sad to lose a parent. May God bless you all at this difficult time.
Helen and Ed Woodrow
Jane, Carl, and family
So sorry for the loss of your Mom. I know she will live on in the hearts of all those she touched with her kindness and humor. God bless you all and may He bring you strength and peace.
Jane, Wanda and I are so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. Please accept our deepest sympathies.