Mary (Whitey) White
February 7, 1949 to November 21, 2023
Obituary
Mary (Whitey) White
Passed peacefully away on November 21, 2023, predeceased by her parents, Florence and Terrence White, her brothers Alphonsus and David
and her special friends Tommy Sexton and Ron Hynes.
Surrounded to the end by her devoted family, she leaves to mourn her loving partner Greg Malone, Sandy Morris and sons Django (Rachel Sun), Dashiell (Noelle), and her adored grandson, Rudi. Also by her side, her sister, Marian and Beni Malone, special niece Anahareo (Marco Doelle), she leaves to mourn a large loving family of six sisters and three brothers, numerous special
nieces and nephews and a wide circle of close friends.
Whitey was much loved. Her enormous contribution to Newfoundland culture is legendary. She was instrumental in forming both the Wonderful Grand Band and CODCO, and managed both shows into national TV series. Whitey lived her life serving art and artists and will be forever remembered by many for her unstinting devotion and love.
A celebration of her life will take place at the Wonderbolt SPACE, 72 Harbour Drive on Friday, December 1, 2023 at 7:30 p.m. Donations to the Artists Emergency Fund (CAPE NL) are greatly appreciated.
It was so sad to learn of White’s passing. I did not know her well but her strength and commitment to her loved ones and Newfoundland culture were evident at all times. My condolences to Greg, Sandy and the White and Malone families.
Mary (and it’s a lovely photo) was a bright, positive, creative, kindly person who worked intelligently and unassumingly for good things to happen. The heaviest thing about good people is we end up having to miss them. I suppose that’s the burden of life, the burden that paradoxically would vanish only if the good things were not there. So that heaviest burden is a reflection of the good they did. Happy journeys, Mary White!
My deep condolences to Greg, Sandy and all of White’s families, relatives, and friends. My special memory of White is from the 80’s. I was invited to Christmas dinner and I looked through the oven door and I said to White that looks like an excellent turkey. White looked at me with her piercing eyes and gave a big smile and moved on. Of course when dinner was served there was no turkey, just a huge roasted pumpkin! Best to all.
Our deepest sympathies to the White and Malone families. White was an amazing human being, so kind, considerate, intelligent and very reliable. The kindest person you could ever meet, so full of wisdom. White put everybody else first, even when she was so sick. We will miss her immensely. We have such good memories of all the fun we had together. Thank you for all you did.
Debbie & Paul
We are all born to create and Mary lived that on many levels. She created not only the most wonderful organic garden I’ve ever experienced but also fertilized many artists, actors and musicians with her solid belief in the value of creativity. She once to0k me to a special river swimming spot and simply said “It doesn’t get better.” Wisdom I’ve never forgotten.
She impressed me deeply with her ability to be totally present and live the moment. Her family and friends have been so very fortunate to share her life. With love, Twyla
My deepest condolences to White’s family, and to all who knew and loved her – a great many people indeed. May you find strength in one another, and may her memory be a comfort.
My heart goes out to White’s family and friends at this sad time . What an immense contribution she has made to the local arts scene! Sending comfort and gratitude for all she gave.
In peace
Sheilagh
To Sandy and Greg and all of Whitey’s family… sincere condolences for your loss…
Greg, Beni, Marion, Sandy Sorry to hear of Whitey’s passing. To put it mildly, she was a positive force of nature.. A compassionate and caring individual to all who crossed her path. My condolences to you, the entire family, and her myriad of friends.
Jim
I would like you to please pass along my condolences to all of Whitey’s family and close friends. I have not seen her for many years but we had great fun back in the days. She always had a great sense of humour
The last time I visited Newfoundland, I stayed with my
Aunt Jennifer and Cousin David. Greg and Whitey spend the evening with us, and Whitey affectionately told me that I’m welcome to Newfoundland any time and they will always be family. That has stuck with me for the entirety of my adult life, knowing that kindness like that existed in the world. Thank you, Whitey, for reminding me that Newfoundland is a truly special place filled with special people. You will be so missed by all
So sorry for the loss of Mary(Whitey)White my deepest condolences to Greg , Sandy and family She was a great person with a huge heart may she RIP Fly High Mary with the angels
Greg, Sandy, Marion, Beni and the rest of the families, White always had a kind, gentle and honest word for me. She will be missed. It’s like losing an Oracle.
Condolences to you all.
So many images come to mind remembering Whitey, but most of all it was her caring for others and how to help others in need that stand out. She had a big big heart and shared her love of life with so many. Although it’s been many years now, when Terry and I lived in St. John’s, we looked forward to visits at Forest Road and Avondale, where we had many wonderful meals only to be outdone by the companionship of the host that created memories of fun filled afternoons.
Our deepest condolences to all her family, your loss is large but she will live on in those she loved.
Greg, so sorry to hear of Whitey’s passing. My condolences to all the family.
Our deepest condolences to all the family at this sad and difficult time. Whitey was a beautiful soul, and you always felt better being in her presence. May she rest in peace.
Barry & Glenda Wilkins
What an enormous loss. My heart goes out to all of White’s many loved ones. I will be forever grateful to have known her and felt her friendship, encouragement, intelligence and humour. Thank you, White!
Greg, Dashi, Django and all the White and Malone families, we were so sorry to hear of Whitey’s passing. She was an amazing woman and a sweetheart. We always loved running into her and having a grand chat – she only ever called me Herbie! Last time I saw Whitey she was elbows deep making kimchi!
Thank you to Whitey for everything she did for CODCO, WGB and all the arts! She will be truly missed here, but I am sure Tommy and Ron were very excited to see her!
I was introduced to Mary once a long time ago by Greg , when What Do YouWant to See the Harbour for, Anyway? was in the early stages of development. Someone told me that, behind the scenes, she was the steady hand that guided CODCO., and that she was just called White. Her demeanour was.quiet, almost self-effacing, but I sensed I was in the presence of a confident and grounded person. That was it. I don’t think our paths crossed again. But I am saddened now to hear that she is gone from this world. and to read the wonderful tributes of those who knew and loved her well. She, and all her family and friends, are in my thoughts this weekend.
My condolences. WHITE always steadied the path and loved all..TOTAL CLASS.
To the family, Greg, Sandy, Beni, Marion and the family of friends, my heartfelt condolences. Straddling the old Newfoundland by just over a month, Whitey was among the first of this generation to breathe in the lifeblood of this new and beckoning province. A force of nature in her own place and time, nature has claimed yet another of our own with her departure. This province (and country) owes her life and memory a huge debt. We are at a loss with her passing.
To Greg and the White family, please accept our condolences on Mary’s passing. She certainly made her mark on earth and her great memories will last forever. Thinking about you all at this difficult time.
Greg and family,
Our deepest sympathy to you all. Whitey was a warm, funny and welcoming person. She will be missed by all who knew her..
Lois and Barry O’Keefe
Dear Greg and Family , please accept my deepest condolences on the passing of Mary. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Sincerely, Ken Pieroway
My deepest and heartfelt sympathies, Greg, Sandy, Beni, Marion and all the family, at this dimming of White’s amazing light, and this wave over the rare and beautiful rock she was for you all. All peace and love ~
Barry Greene
to Greg ,Sandy Marion,
Beni , Annahareo and family.
My sincere condolances. Whitey was truly a powerful force behind several artists who enjoy much success.
She was kind and good to all.She will surely be missed by many. Thinking about you all
Susan Jamieson
Deepest condolences to White’s large and loving family. White’s legacy remains with us to this day through the arts, organic lifestyle, and music. She was a remarkable woman, a true trail blazer. Sending peace and love to all..
Dear Greg and family. Diane and I are so sorry for your loss. Mary was very special and it was a privilege to have known her. We will remember fondly the dinners she cooked for us when the two of you visited us here on the west coast.
Greg, Marion, and Malone family, so sorry to hear of Mary’s passing, our thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
Dashi, Greg, I’m so sorry. Mary and your family gave so much years ago, when Dashi was at Lakecrest with Antony. And continued to give so very much in human warmth and cheer whenever over the years I ran into you. Warmth, warmth, warmth and good will. One of those who make a place a good place.
My sincerest condolences to all. Thank you Mary for your love and compassion of the arts. You make me smile every time I hear your name. Rest in peace wonderful Lady. Say hi to Ron, Tommy and those gone before us. aYou made Earth a better place.
Thank you for your laughter. I look back and love everything you did for the Arts. I am a proud Newfoundland and it is because of you I stand proud. Rest in peace sweet being. xoxo
Sincere condolences to the White and Malone families-Mary grew up in Carbonear as our neighbour-when my sister and father died, Mary was very solicitous and caring at a time when we needed it most.RIP, Mary.
Greg, Marian, and Family. I was so very sorry to hear of Mary’s passing. Know that my thoughts are with you at this difficult time, as you celebrate Mary’s life and accomplishments. Please accept my sincere condolences. Vince (Ferryland)
Sincere condolences Greg, to you and all the family, which includes all the artists that Mary (Whitey) has managed, encouraged, loved and influenced. Such a special person in so many ways. So sorry for your loss. Please accept our deepest sympathies.
Sean and Tracey Noah
To Greg and all family.
I Send my heartfelt condolences to all at this time of deep sadness and loss.. Take good care of yourselves and each other.
With my love,
Sue Roberts.
My condolence to all of Mary’s family, your loss will be felt by many throughout the province. Mary left a positive and happy presence with everyone she meet.
Greg and Family
Our condolences on your loss. Whitey was a great neighbour for the last number of years on Dartmouth Place and we enjoyed having your family here. She will be missed, and you have our deepest condolences.
Greg – Frankie – Leo and extended family of Mary
Mary was truly a force of nature and in her day and generation a very accomplished person in our Society. She was dedicated to her family and many friends. She certainly did it “:her way “ .on her journey.
Sincere condolences to all who mourn her passing.
Godspeed Mary.
To Greg , Sandy, and all family members and friends my condolences. I remember her from my days as a letter carrier delivering to her house on Sycamore Place. Always a friendly smile. RIP Randy Churchill
Our deepest condolences to Greg and Whiteys family especially Kerry ,who is related to me,, I know she was special to him and Sheila.
Hugs to all the family
Our deepest condolences to Greg and Whiteys family especially Kerry ,who is related to me,, I know she was special to him and Sheila.
Hugs to all the family
With deepest condolences to all the families, so sorry to hear this Tony, hopefully with time it will ease your pain.
To both the White and Malone families, our sincere condolences on the loss of Whitey. She was a pillar of strength, truth and kindness throughout her life, a beacon for so many, and will be deeply missed. May you find comfort at this time in knowing how treasured she was to so many.
Diana Baird and Jonathan Moir
I knew Whitey well for a short and precious time. Her sense of calm and gentle humour were remarkable. She was a force.
I have great respect and admiration for her and, I will remember her always.
Greg and family – all those who love her – please accept my sincere condolences.
Deep peace to Whitey. Deep peace to Greg and all who deeply cherished her strength, wisdom, kindness and friendship.
Sincere condolences to Greg and all the family on the loss of Whitey. May she rest in peace
Greg, and family
Such very sad news I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
Ed and I send our condolences to you and all of your family. RIP Whitey.
Greg, Sandy and Mary’s family and friends,
I am so very sorry to hear about Mary’s passing. She was a great friend to my grandmother, and I always loved to hear about their visits. They spent many an hour making pickles and beets, and even more hours chatting on the phone.
Mary always checked in on her when she was sick, sad, or had a good story to share. She loved to make Nanny laugh.
The stories of the hippies on dock ridge were part of my entire life. Thank you for sharing Mary and her love with our family.
Danielle Doyle
Greg my deepest condolences to you and your family. I met Whitey on a few occasions meeting with you and while I knew she was associated with WGB and Codco I never knew the role she played in shaping and managing our popular culture.She has sailed in search of new horizons now and we wish her well on this journey.
Greg and family, my condolences on your loss of such a pillar in your lives.
To Greg and her extended family: I did not know Whitey well (was never even sure if that was the name I should address her by) but whenever we met, I was impressed by her generous spirit. She always deflected attention away from herself and towards others. I do know that she was part of that group of young people who unwrapped Newfoundland culture for us, as well as for outsiders–a history that remains to be written. Her contribution and her spirit will not be forgotten. Please know that I am thinking about you and your family.
My sincere condolences to all the family especially Greg.. You were her rock till the end. Whitey was always a force to be reckoned with and I so admired her gentle strength. She will be missed by all who ever spent time in her company. But it’s nice to know she is reunited with Tommy and Ron….now that will be a time!!
An amazing women. Bright, humerus, caring, thoughtful and loving. She was an example for us all and will be sorely missed by all of us who had the privilege of calling her a friend and confidant much love to her family and particularly Greg her constant partner at this sad time.
The very best to all who are affected by her loss.
Barbara and Denis Barry
A woman who made life that much better for us all. Warm up heaven’s kitchen stove for one hell of a party. Tommy and Ron are only getting started.
Our thoughts and feelings are with all of you.. Whitey goes with a great deal of love surrounding her forever.. ❤
Eileen and Paul
Greg and Sandy and family. I am so saddened for your loss.
To Greg, Sandy and all Whitey’s large and loving family., we offer our condolences for your great loss. We also celebrate Whitey for her full life brimmed with intelligence, gentleness, mentorship, and. authenticity. We shared a few. cups of tea when Greg and I were knee deep in the various public policy debates (hydro, fisheries, forestry to name a few). Whitey made an excellent cup of tea but the conversation that.accompanied it was even better. As a stalwart Newfoundlander – Whitey’s passion and commitment shone. She was a fierce protector of family and with her skills she was more than successful at it. It is sad that she has passed but I can’t but smile as I remember this ‘behind the scenes’ powerhouse of a person; who leaves her mark to live on. .
To Connie and all the family. So sorry for your loss. She will be missed by all who’s lives she touched. Sending love, deepest sympathy, and prayers for comfort and peace for you and all of your family. From Shirley and Armin, Upper Island Cove, NL.
A very sad loss to the family of a lovely and kind lady. May you be at peace with your Lord and family 🌸🌸🌸
This is very sad news
Deepest condolences to Greg, Sandy, Marian, her whole family and many friends.
RIP “Whitey”
Whitey was a lovely light. She was always so pleasant to me and endlessly encouraging; from my very first days in the production business of the late 80’s as production assistant with CODCO, right on up through to me finding my own place as a filmmaker in my own right. Whenever we crossed paths she was genuinely interested in what I had going on before I even had a chance to get a question in about HER latest project. I always loved seeing her coming because I knew we were about to have a real conversation – not just an obligatory “hey – how are ya?” at a gathering. This news truly makes me sad. My thoughts are with all her family and endless circle of friends. How fortunate we are to have to been part of her adventure here.
Greg and family so sorry for your loss deepest condolences RIP