Patricia "Patsy" Ryan/Maye
June 8, 1942 to July 31, 2023
Obituary
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Our mother was a lifeforce! She had an incredible presence and fashion sense, and a large circle of friends who she regularly kept in touch with. She was always on the go, from golfing, walking, playing bridge and her favorite thing in the whole world: Shopping or “twacking around” as she often called it.
Loving wife to her husband of 29 years Harold, proud mother of Craig, Barbie and Shannon. A hairdresser by trade, she started her first business at 17 and never looked back. She owned “Hair by Patricia” on Pearson St. and “Oh What a View” B&B on Signal Hill.
She was our mother, our hero, our best friend. We will miss her every day, but we will always carry her in our hearts. She taught us how to live, how to love and how to be happy. She was the best wife, mother, aunt and friend anyone could ask for.
Rest in peace. You are loved beyond words and missed beyond measure.
Predeceased by parents Alice and Hilary Ryan, son Craig Tilley, sisters Barbara and Maureen (Jim Wiest) and brother Austin Ryan. Lovingly remembered by her husband of 29 years Harold Maye, daughter Barbie Tilley (Brendan), son Shannon Tilley (Jennifer) stepchildren Michele Ferguson (David) and Greg Maye (Michele), grand children Evan Strange, Ryan Tilley (Alex), Shaye Tilley, Eric and Abby Ferguson, Amanda Roberts and Ryan Maye, her sister Dorothy Ryan (Stevie), sister in law Sandra Ryan, and many nieces and nephews.
Visitation will take place at Carnell’s Funeral Home, 329 Freshwater Water Rd. on Thursday August 3rd from 11am-5pm.
A funeral mass will be held at the Basilica of St. John the Baptist on Friday, August 4th at 1pm. Inurnment to follow at Holy Sepulchre Cemetery.
Thank you to all family and friends who showed your support during this difficult time. Especially the incredible staff of 4 South B, it was greatly appreciated. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the SPCA or a charity of your choice.
Schedule
Visitations
11AM - 5PM on August 3, 2023
Carnell’s Funeral Home
329 Freshwater Road
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funeral
1:00pm, Friday August 4th
Basilica of St. John the Baptist
Evan and Barb, so sorry to hear about Patsy’s passing. Sending hugs and love. xo
Dear Harold and Family,
I was so sorry to hear of Patsy’s passing. I lived next door to Patsy for several years. I appreciated her friendly and kind nature and her great sense of humour. Rest In Peace, Patsy.
Words can’t express our sadness for Patsys passing,….
We met @ Oh What A View years ago & have remained good friends ever since..
Condolences to Harold & rest of family..
RIP dear friend Patsy…💕💕
Joyce & Don Gilchrist Richmond BC
Michelle and extended family. Very sorry to hear of Patsy’s passing. It was only a few months ago we had a grand gab as she was twaking Value Village… Cherish the memories!
So very sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers to your family.
Frank, Bernice, Tanya and Craig Foley
Harold, Dorothy, Barbie, Shannon an families
So sorry to hear of Patsy’s passing. Patsy was a graceful, beautiful, friendly, fashionable and generous lady, who was full of life and loved by all.. I hope you find strength in knowing that Patsy will be a part of you and your family forever.
Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of your wife/sister/mother/grandmother (a beautiful lady) and cherish the wonderful memories you all made over the years.
Prayers and thoughts are with you all during this difficult time. Rest in Peace. God Bless.
Susan Flynn and family
So sorry to hear of your mother’s passing.Have known her since she was a young girl living on Suez Street and I lived on Liverpool Ave. Have not seen her for years as I have lived outside St. John’s. Whenever I did see her we had a little chat. She certainly was a very fashionable lady and I am sure she will be missed.
Blessings
So sorry to hear of Patty’s passing, I loved her free spirit she was the salt of the earth , she had a nack with people and loved being in her presence. I will miss her dearly. Rest in heavenly peace my friend.
My sincerest condolences on the passing of Patsy – she was an icon in St Johns – loved & admired by everyone – classy lady inside & out – she will certainly be missed❤️❤️❤️❤️
My sincere condolences to you all . I remember Patsy fondly, such a free and happy spirit , always dressed to the “nines”! Rest in peace Patsy .
Barb,Bren,Evan and family my deepest condolences on the passing of your dear mom, grandmother. Hold close your memories.
So sorry to hear of your mom’s passing , thinking of you all.
Love
Bill and Kay Dobbin
Barbie and Family, my sincere condolences to you and your family on the loss of your Mom. Hold tight to the wonderful memories
So sorry for your loss! She’ll be missed by many.
Patsy was an unbelievable force. To the family and my dearest friend Dot, please accept my deepest condolences. Patsy you will be remembered. RIP
Barb & Shannon and families, my sincere condolences on the loss of your Mom. May she rest in peace.
God Bless.
Dot Harold Shannon and Barbie, please accept our sincere condolences on the passing of Patsy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Sending my most sincere condolences to Patsy’s family and friends. My memories and family connections go back to my grandparents & Patsy’s parents, who were great friends. My dad and grandparents shared so many fun stories over the years – those memories, along with my own, will keep Patsy (and her entire family) in our hearts for years to come.
Kim Walsh for The Walsh Family
(George, Flo, Don & Carol Ann – Deceased)
Helen, Kim & Lynn Ann
Harold,Craig,Barbie and Shannon my sincere condolences to all of you on the passing of this amazing woman. I have known Patsy since we were kids. Always fun to be around and always made you feel good in her presence. I’ll always remember her beautiful smile…She lived …loved…and laughed. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. Noel
To Patsy”s Family………..I knew your Mom for many years
and as a matter of fact I was one of her first customers.. Not only was she was an excellent hairdresser she kept you entertained all while you were in her salon. Your Mom was a beautiful person inside and out.
Rest in peace Patsy.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very difficult time.
Dave and Gwen Billard
Shannon & Barbie, she was indeed a life force! I have fond memories of camping in park , doing various sewing requests, working for her and enjoying chats. She lived a full life that’s for sure, loving everything that comes with it and sharing experiences. I’m sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and thinking of your mom fondly during this difficult time.
Shannon, Jenn, Ryan, Alex and Shaye – you haven’t been far from my thoughts. I didn’t know Patsy but I’ve heard a lot of great stories about her and the times my dad and Rose spent with her in Florida (back in the day). It sounds like she lived life to the fullest and on her terms. She also left a pretty amazing legacy. It doesn’t get any better than that. Sending you lots of love during this difficult time. Please don’t hesitate to reach out if you need anything.
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Patsy. She hired me right out of school to work at her salon Hair By Patricia. I worked for her for 7 years. She was always good to me.
I have many fond memories of her and I hope she is resting peacefully. I would like to send my condolences to her family at this sad time.
Barbie and family, We were saddened to learn of your mother’s passing. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. Ramona and Derek Chafe
To Patsy’s Family, my sincere condolences ON The passing of a wonderful Mom, Wife , grandmother , and friend . I have known Patsy for many years, she was always the life of a gathering or party, she lived life to the fullest and was always surrounded by many of her friends whether it be cards, roller skating, ice skating or just a get together for a lunch. Her Hair Salon was always busy, I went there many times when we lived on Pearson Street.. Patsy will be sadly missed by many , May her gentle soul rest in Peace.
With deepest sympathy
Carmelita Johnson
I am so sorry to hear of Pat’s passing. I met Pat through my aunt, Carmel King. She loved Pat, and so did my mother, Rosemary Clarke.
Pat was a kind and vibrant soul. She always looked so beautiful and had such an endearing personality..
She will be greatly missed by many. Sincere condolences to the family. RIP dear Pat. You are with the angels now.🙏
To patsy’s family.
I was saddened to hear of the passing of your wonderful mom. We were friends since high school and beyond. Patsy, Carol Rice and I go back many years. Your mom was a straight forward open minded lady and was always very honest.
She will be missed by many. Remember her for the wonderful love she had for her children. May our Blessed Lord sustain u all during the difficult days ahead.
God bless u Patsy.
Rest In Peace.
Sincerely
To patsy’s family.
I was saddened to hear of the passing of your wonderful mom. We were friends since high school and beyond. Patsy, Carol Rice and I go back many years. Your mom was a straight forward open minded lady and was always very honest.
She will be missed by many. Remember her for the wonderful love she had for her children. May our Blessed Lord sustain u all during the difficult days ahead.
God bless u Patsy.
Rest In Peace.
Sincerely,
Ruth Kenny.
To patsy’s family.
I was saddened to hear of the passing of your wonderful mom. We were friends since high school and beyond. Patsy, Carol Rice and I go back many years. Your mom was a straight forward open minded lady and was always open and honest. She will be missed by many. Remember her for the wonderful love she had for her children. May our Blessed Lord sustain u all during the difficult days ahead.
God bless u Patsy.
Rest In Peace.
Sincerely,
Ruth Kenny.
So sorry for your loss 😢
Lots of good memories from Christmas Parties to dropping off berries and lots a great chats. She was really good to me during difficult times and I always appreciated her understanding.. She was a great lady ❤️
Thoughts and Prayers are with Patsy”s Family/. She was a Beautiful lady. God Bless You All
Our deepest condolences. I was lucky enough to get to know Patsy even in her last days when we spent some time together at the hospital.
Harold and family.
So sorry to hear of Pasty’s passing. She surely did love life
. I look out everyday to see her evergreen tree, which she tried so hard to get out of her flower garden. It is a beautiful reminder of what great neighbours you were on Signal hill. Take care
Thelma and Albert Willuams
Harold & Family
So sorry to hear of Patsys passing. She will surely be missed. She was always so full of life. Take care of yourself. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Dear Barbi And family;
I was sorry to learn of your mother’s passing.
Patricia had a salon in the Horel NFLD – I was a regular client who was happy to have found a
Stylist who had skill to cut naturally curly hair. To my satisfaction!
So sorry for your loss.
Colleen Hanrahan
Sorry Barb to hear of your Mom’s passing.. Condolences to you and all the family.
Harold and Family,
Patsy has been a great golf friend over the years. She will be missed. Thinking of you all at this difficult time.
Deepest sympathy,
Olga and Ed Soper
Our hearts and arms are around Patricias family. We may not know each other, but we have been blessed to know the very rare and special spirit of Patsy. We do not feel it will fade away and hope that thought brings some peace. We will miss her.
With care,
Ethne and Bengie Munden
Please accept our deepest condolences on the passing of a wonderful woman, Patsy.
Beautiful memories will indeed sustain you all.
Rest in Peace .
Deepest Sympathy Barbie on your Moms passing.. Thinking of you and your family at this difficult time.
Peter & Cathie Casey
So sorry to hear of Patsy’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with Harold and family.
Sending you our deepest condolences. Patsy was such a beautiful soul and I loved any opportunity I had to be in her company!!
Fly with the angels sweet lady
We had gotten to know Patsy well over the past couple of years through playing Bridge and social gathering.s. We loved her as the kind hearted and loving individual she was . Her presence was large and she lit up a room whenever she walked in., and her kind heart was equally as large. We will both miss Patsy very much . We send our sincere condolences to Harold and all her family. Your loss is huge and may your treasured memories help you through this very difficult time.
Dorothy and Don French
Harold:
So sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.
Maurice J. Murphy
Sincere condolences to all Pats family!!
Her son and my husband died tragically on the Ocean Ranger…. She was a strong voice as we tried hard to push for safety changes for years later! RIP my friend!
Patsy was a long time friend who never failed to make me smile. My sincere sympathy to all of her family. I will miss her too.
So sorry for your loss, may Patsy rest in peace.
Barbie, sending condolences on the passing of your dear mother,
Maria Goodridge
My deepest condolences to the family, I’m so very sorry for your loss❤️🙏🏼 My she rest in paradise.
-Megan
TO Harold and all of Patsy’s family. We were saddened to hear of her passing. WE echo all the beautiful tributes and words of comfort. Out thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. I don’t recall the author of the following quote but I hope that it will bring you some comfort now and in the days to come. “ TO LIVE IN THE HEARTS OF THOSE WE LOVE IS NOT TO DIE” Sending deepest condolences. Maude & Ches Peach
I have known Patsy since the 1940’s when i visited my grandparents on Suez Street. Even then, she was a force to be reckoned with. Patsy never did anything halfway! She experienced the full gamit of life experiences and feelings, and was true to her family and friends!
My sincere condolences to her family and friends. Finally to be with Craig …..
To Harold, Ryan & Tilley Families we extend sincere condolences with the passing of Patsy. Let the wonderful memories you’ve shared with her help sustain you through this most difficult time.
Eleanor & Sam Walters
To Shannon and all of Patsy’s family. The loss you are feeling now is very hard because it comes from love. Patsy was a remarkable woman. I met her first at her Salon on Pearson ST. many years ago. The picture you have chosen with her wonderful smile and her perfect style shows the warmth she always gave. My sincere sympathy to you all
Phyllis Beckett
To all of Patsy’s family and friends,
We are so sorry to hear that she passed away. Patsy was a fun and vibrant woman. We certainly enjoyed our many chats over the years. Keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers.
I curled with Patsy and Harold for a few years. Patsy was someone you got to know instantly, and liked right from the start. I share in your sorrow for the loss of such a beautiful person. May she rest in peace.
To Harold, Barbie & family.
We are so sorry to hear of Patsy’s passing. We’ve known Patsy since she & Harold moved next door to Jeff & Connie. Consequently we got to spend many dinners & evenings in her presence. She was as beautiful a person as she appears in her stunning obituary picture. Patsy & Harold’s different personalities made them both so much fun to be around.
Unfortunately we are out of the country & will be unable to attend the wake or funeral.
Ted & Mary Lynn
To Harold,Sha.non,Barbie and fa.mily.Please accept my sincere condolences at this sad and difficult time.Patsy was beautiful inside and out.She was fun to be around and always made you welcome.
She will be missed!!!
To Harold,Sha.non,Barbie and fa.mily.Please accept my sincere condolences at this sad and difficult time.Patsy was beautiful inside and out.She was fun to be around and always made you welcome.
She will be missed!!!
Harold and family,
With a smile that would light a room, the grace and elegance of a lady, the ability to take life at face value and run with it, Patsy was an incredibly beautiful woman. Through the years we enjoyed many conversations and always found an interesting topic for discussion.
Please accept our sincerest, heartfelt condolences.
Keep them all in line Patsy! Lots of time for a game now my sweet.
I met Patsy and Harold through curling at the St. John’s Curling club. What a colourful genuine character inside and out. A real breath of fresh air when she entered the room. A lifetime of pleasurable memories will surely keep her spirit alive.🌹
We are so sorry to hear of Patsy’s passing. We loved being in her company as she was so much fun and just a delight. Lots of great memories in St John’s, Corner Brook and Florida. George, Rochelle, and Karlyne Spracklin
So very sorry to hear of Pat’s passing, she was a wonderful person….I met Pat back in the late 1960’s…..I admired her charm & smart wittiness….Rest in peace beautiful lady.
To Harold, Dorothy, Michelle and Family
So sad to hear of Passy’s passing. We have lots of good memories of Patsy through the years. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. Take care
Love, Ed and Val Coward
Sincere condolences to all of Patsy’s family and friends. Patsy was a beautiful person inside and out always had a beautiful smile for everyone and also so positive thinking she will be missed. Fly high with the angels
So very sorry and sad to hear of Patsy’s death. It was always a joy to see her.,no matter where we were when we ran into one another it was a catch up . Full of laughs and memories.. Condolences to her family and manny friends,
Sorry Barbie for the loss of your momma. Hugs
Love sean and sherri
Dear Barb and family, we are thinking of you all during this sad time. Your Mother lived life to the fullest and anyone who met her will never forget her. She was caring and thoughtful on many occasions to Ray and I.
We hope the happy memories help get you through this difficult time. Sending our condolences and love ❤️
Christina and Ray
Harold, please accept my condolences on the death of Pat. We all remember her from the various activities she was involved in and around the city. Our partner is a tremendous loss in our lives and the miss takes time to heal . I say this as I too, have lost my dear husband. In 2023. Pat was a vibrant partner and we now leave her into the hands of our loving God. My prayers are with you as you go firwasrd.
To all the loving family of Patsy,
Please accept my sincere condolences. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
I’m certainly glad to have had the pleasure of meeting your Mom/wife/ grandma.
Rest Easy Patsy
Shannon & Family;
My condolences on the loss of your wonderful mom.
May all the beautiful memories you have be a comfort to you & your family.
Rest in Peace Patsy
Our deepest condolences. Patsy was a beautiful lady. We used to live on the same street and she was just darling.
Harold & family – what a vivacious, kind, unforgettable woman Patsy was. She was a great friend to my late mother (Mary Slade) and we always think of Patsy when we spend time in St Jones Within. Sending you our sincere condolences during this difficult time.
To all the family,
So sorry to hear of Patsy‘s passing , our thoughts and prayers are with everyone, she was such a vibrant person and so full of energy all the time. Thinking of you all.
Paul and Phyllis Walsh 🙏🏻
My deepest condolences . I worked for Patsy many moons ago at the salon. I am glad I got to spend time with here last summer when I was home. Large as life she was! Go rest high on that mountain girl friend.
Harold and family
Please know that you are in my thoughts …. I am so sorry for your loss. I will surely miss her huge smile and beautiful personality. She was beautiful both inside and out.
Rest assured Harold that your friends ( George and I included) will stay close to you.
I am out of town and will miss the service but know that I’ll be thinking about you all.
With love and friendship
Anne
Xo
To Harold and family. Our sincere condolences to all. Enjoyed some great times in Florida with her. Especially the consignment stores! She will be missed.
Glad and Linda Dalton
I’m a speechless and heartbroken to hear this news. I have been asking people about her n if they saw her. I am sad beyond words.. please accept my condolences 🙏
Harold, Barb and Shannon my heart goes out to you and all the family. She will never be forgotten.
RIP beautiful lady ❤️
Sending love from Calgary
Peggy Williams and family
To Harold, and all your families:
My sincere condolences.
I looked forward to seeing Patsy at Shirley’s social gatherings always. Such a beautiful, bright force among us. I know she is dearly missed already.
Kindest,
Cindy
Our sincere condolences to Shannon, Barbie and all the family. Thinking of you at this difficult time.
Our sincere condolences to Barb, Bren, and all the family.
May your mom now Rest In Peace. Thinking of you at this difficult time.
toHarold&all the family;
our sincere condolences thinking of you all at this difficult time God Bless
Bud & Sandra Duffett
Condolences to all who knew and loved you, Patsy.
Condolences to the family.
Patsy and I began school together..
She was always the life of the classroom.Birthday parties on Suez street were great.Skating at the stadium was the highlight of every weekend week.
.Life was good-
May her gentle soul rest in peace.
Annette (Atkinson)Boyle.
Barbie, Shannon. Dot, Harold and family. We were so sorry to hear of Patsy’s passing. Our sincere condolences at this difficult time. Rest in peace Patsy.
Barbie and Brendan, thinking of you both as you mourn the passing of Patsy. May her gentle soul rest in pace and love.
My mother (Melba ) worked with Patricia way back in the day cutting hair together. They loved to bump into each other and have the longest conversations. They would laugh and laugh. She will be so sad to hear this. Our deepest condolences 💐
Barbie, I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. Please accept my deepest condolences.
Judi ( Davis) Carroll
My sincere condolences to Harold and all her family and friends ,She will be missed.
Barbie, Dot, Harold and Family,
So saddened when I heard of Patsy’s passing, words cannot express the heartbreak I feel for your family. She was a powerhouse of a women. We all loved seeing her at the salon and she would always have an energy that was contagious. She always would have a funny story to tell, strike up a conversation with an absolute stranger, able to connect with anyone. Her presence will be deeply missed. I will truely miss her. Please accept my most sincere condolences
Susan
So sorry for your loss
Barbie, I am so sad to hear of your Mom’s passing.
A friend for over 50 years, when I moved here from Cape Breton, we met and immediately became friends.
Loved her positivity! She loved her family so much.
Rest in peace my sweet friend!
So sorry to hear of Patsy’s passing. My condolences to Harold, her family and friends. She will be surely missed.
Judy
Dot, Shannon, Barbie and family,
It’s hard for me to comprehend that I’m penning another condolence message so quickly. My deepest sympathies extend to your entire family. Patsy was always welcoming, inviting me into her home and cottage with open arms. She had an undeniable flair for fashion and never failed to present herself at her finest. I recall the time she assured Dottie that anyone could find their voice, after having taken singing lessons herself. The memory brings a smile to my face even now. May she find eternal peace. Surely, there’s a grand celebration happening in heaven tonight.
Barbi and family please accept our deepest condolences at these difficult times.Patsy was a very nice lady and always had a smile on her face.May she rest in peace god bless you all
We have all lost a kind generous caring beautiful soul. Patsy was always there for people in need and gave so much to so many. She loved her children and was the proudest of grandmothers always talking of their accomplishments. For the past 56 years we talked at least once a week and laughed and cried together and it was a special bond. Goodbye my friend. You will always have a special place in my heart. To Harold and all of the children and grandchildren I am so sorry for your loss. On behalf of myself and all of my family I offer you our sincere condolences. Also to Diorothy and all of the Ryan family
Deepest condolences to the family on the loss of Patsy, a Wife, Mom, Sister, Aunt and Friend.
To Harold ,Dorthy & Patsy’s family,
I’m so sorry to hear of Patsy’s passing.She will be so missed by all who knew her. She is now at peace .Fly with the angels Patsy.You are now free..RIP.
Deepest condolences to Pasty’s husband and family..
I met. Pasty years ago roller skating and ice skating.
She was so vibrant and lovely..I would then see her at bridge at Bally Haley.she was always friendly and dressed to the nines. Also had time for a chat.Rest in peace my
friend..
Sincerely Linda Giannou❤️
We are so sorry to hear of Patsy’s passing. She was a breath of fresh air. Wherever we saw her, she would stop to chat. She had a wonderful zest for life and a fabulous sense of humour.
Our deepest condolences to her family .
Barb, I’m so sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you, and all your family, during this difficult time. God Bless! Karen (Murphy) Mallard
To the Tilley, Ryan, and Maye families,
I am so very sorry to hear of Patsy’s passing. She was a good friend to my mother Ida Fagan and to me through the years at Baly Hally. I remember the women’s invitational golf tournaments…Patsy was always the most fashionable one out there on the course. She always had a hug and big smile for me everytime I saw her. Patsy will missed dearly but all who were lucky enough to know her and call her a friend. Our deepest condolences to all of you during this difficult time.
Dot and family. Patsy was such a presence in every room she walked into, Her smile, fashion, funny, stories.
So many losses in the past months for you all. I always loved to drop in where the family was finishing up a family meal or celebration. It made my day. I always asked her about the soup at bridge and auction making sure it was good. I’d trust her to tell me the truth and then she’d say it doesn’t matter it’s all about getting together. She was right. Oh my we will miss her. Rest in Peace but I know you’ll be talking up
a storm.
Sorry to hear of Patsy passing. She was a great hairdresser to my mother and aunt Hilda Gallagher and Rita McDonald. Oh the fun they had at their appointments. RIP Patsy
Sorry to hear of Pasty’s passing! Condolences to the family! Thinking of you all during this difficult time!
To: Harold, Shannon, Barbie and all of her family: Our sincere condolences on patsy’s passing. I will miss our nightly phone calls, our laughs and giggles, golf, lunches, her big smile and hugh personality. Rest in peace my love, you have truly earned it. With love ❤️ Joan and lorne
So very sorry your loss . My thoughts and Prayers are with each and every one of you
Barbie and Family, please accept my sincere condolences for the loss of your wonderful Mom.
HarroldShannon,Barbie and families, So sorry to hear of Patsy\s passing my thoughts are with you at this sad time. we sure had a lot of laughs together they will never be forgotten.
Barbie and family, I am so sorry to hear about your Mom’s passing. She was one incredible Lady, a force to be reckoned with! You are all with great memories. My deepest condolences, Betty Spearns.